Perhaps you’re looking for a few lightweight bras to lounge around the house in, or a few styles that are comfortable enough to wear to bed. Or, perhaps you need a comfy option to wear following a breast surgery. Maybe you need some options for when your breasts are tender and sensitive during breastfeeding. Regardless of the reason behind why you’re on the hunt for wireless bras, you’re facing a new dilemma: you’re just not sure where to start shopping.

Fortunately, more and more wire-free bras are available than ever  — and better yet, the construction has been increasingly improving, meaning that they can offer more support than ever before.

Here are some tips on shopping for some wireless or “soft-cup” styles to add to your bra collection.

Wireless features to look for:

First off, it’s important to note that underwire delivers a substantial amount of lift, separation, and definition for the breasts. So there are certain features you may want to seek out to make up for the lack of wire.

For example, a wire-free soft padded bra provides a notable amount of coverage and shaping thanks to the padding. Of course, adjustable shoulder straps and a hook-and-eye closure in the back are key as they allow you to find a perfect fit. Speaking of shaping, it’s hard to beat a molded bra in that department — so consider a wire-free padded bra with seamless molded microfiber cups.

These days, bralettes have become increasingly popular for their gorgeous, ultra-feminine designs, lightweight construction (ideal for those steamy summer months) and supreme comfort. So you might want to try a lace bralette with a few extra features — such as a structured band, supportive cups, adjustable shoulder straps and a hook-and-eye closure. With this enhanced construction, it has a bit more to offer in the way of keeping your breasts in place than most bralettes.

Related: Bralette  vs Bra: What’s The Difference Between A Bra and A Bralette?

Parfait Emma Wire-Free Soft Padded Bra P5491 | Parfait Emma Hipster P5495 in Black

Where to find them:

Many department stores carry a noteworthy selection of wireless bras. Nordstrom, for instance, has an entire section of their lingerie department filled with hundreds of these soft-cup styles, and you can search within the category by color, size, price, brand, etc. Kohl’s is another store that has a wide variety of wire-free bras. You can sort them by highest rated or best-sellers, or you can also narrow your search by color, price, brand, and material.

A number of online retailers also sell wire-free bras from a range of brands. HerRoom boasts an impressive selection (over 900 to choose from!), and you can filter them to show specific styles of wireless bras, such as plus-size, full figure (DD+) cami, front-close, and T-shirt. We love that you can also search this category by “Taste,” including athletic, sexy, luxury and contemporary.

Another site you may want to peruse is Breakout Bras, which carries products up to a size US N and UK JJ. You can refine your search by size, style, color, and brand. But what sets this site apart is that there are helpful comments from an expert fitter on the product pages. These write-ups will let you in on some useful insight, such as whether you should go up a size if you’re fuller busted, or whether a bra molds particularly well to the body or works particularly well as a post-surgery option.

Don’t forget to check local lingerie boutiques as well. For instance, New York City’s Linda the Bra Lady offers a wide selection of “sleep bras,” which are wireless. Additionally, A Sophisticated Pair, which is based in North Carolina, features a variety of wire-cup styles.

A few things to keep in mind:

There is a wide range of stores both large and small, online and brick-and-mortar, that carry wire-free bras — so you’re bound to find some styles that fit your specific needs and preferences. Before you start shopping, though, one final note: With soft-cup bras, it’s equally if not more important that you buy the correct size so as to ensure you’re getting sufficient support despite the absence of the wire. That’s why, if you haven’t done so recently, it’s a good idea to get professionally fitted before purchasing some new wireless styles.

Related: 10 Telltale Signs You Are Wearing The Wrong Bra Size

Parfait Aline Wire-Free Padded Bra P5252 | Parfait Aline Bikini P5253 in Nude

We Highly Recommend

Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit well and feel good, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitter help.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

Featured image lingerie:

Parfait Adriana Wire-Free Bralette Lace Bralette P5482 in Sky Blue, Black, Pearl White

Small, medium, large — that may be the way some clothing is sized, but it certainly doesn’t apply to most bras. Getting a flawless fit is a little more complicated when it comes to your bras because there are multiple measurements that come into play in ensuring these undergarments lend the optimal level of support. And we’re not just talking about your band size and your cup size, either — things get even more complicated once you’re trying to figure out your sister size or convert your size from one country’s system to another.

Here’s the thing: We want to take the stress out of sizing. That’s why we’ve outlined exactly how bras are sized, as well as some helpful info on sister sizing and international sizing, in this handy guide. We hope it helps!

Band/cup sizes

A bra size features two measurements: the band (32, 34, 36, etc.) and the cup (A, B, C, etc.).

The band size is calculated based on the measurement around your rib cage (right under your breasts). As the band size gets larger, the entire bra scales up with it — that’s why a 38A will look much different than a 32A. Since roughly 80% of a bra support comes from the band, it’s also why you’ll notice a lot of fit issues if you’re wearing the wrong band size — and not just a band that’s too tight or loose, either. You might find you’re not quite filling out the cups, or that the straps are too wide on your shoulders, for example.

Cup size, which is represented alphabetically (A to K and larger), is partially calculated based on the overbust measurement, or the measurement of the fullest part of the bust. That being said, cup size is also largely influenced by breast volume, shape, and size. This is why bra fitting and bra sizing is more of an art than a science. It’s not uncommon for two women to wear the same size bra and have completely different breasts.

Sizing

Bra sizing isn’t entirely standardized — so your size may vary slightly from brand to brand and style to style. If you’re shopping lingerie brands that are based in the UK or Europe, you might have had to convert your bra size from its US size to a UK or European bra size. Rest assured, the converted size will be relatively the same in terms of fit and volume – usually, the only difference is the cup size. This is also why you might not wear the same bra size in every brand (and why it’s so important to know what a proper fitting bra looks like).

Related Post: Find Your Bra Sister Size With Our Simple Chart

Bra sister sizes

Did you know that you have more than one size? It’s incredibly useful to know your bra sister sizes. It allows you to get a perfectly fitting bra when that particular style or brand tends to run large or small.

Though your sister size will have a different number and letter, the volume of the cups will be essentially the same. You have two bra sister sizes – one with a larger band and smaller cup and one with a smaller band and larger cup.

Here are a few common sister sizes:

C Cup

32C: 30D, 34B

34C: 32D, 36B

36C: 34D, 38B

38C: 36D, 40B

D Cup

32D: 30DD, 34C

34D: 32DD, 36C

36D: 34DD, 38C

38D: 36DD, 40C

DD Cup

32DD: 34D, 30DDD (or 30E for UK sizing)

34DD: 36D, 32DDD (or 32E for UK sizing)

36DD: 38D, 34DDD (or 34E for UK Sizing)

DDD/E Cup

32DDD (32E for UK sizing): 34DD, 30DDDD/G (or 30F for UK sizing)

34DDD (34E for UK sizing): 36DD, 32DDDD/G (or 32F for UK sizing)

36DDD (36E for UK sizing): 38DD, 34DDDD/G (or 34F for UK sizing)

38DDD (38E for UK sizing): 40DD, 36DDDD/G (or 36F for UK sizing)

Sound confusing? Fortunately, we formulated a sister size chart that makes it super simple to find yours (A to K cup sizes included!)

US to UK sizes

It’s crucial to understand how to convert your cup size from US to UK sizing — particularly if you’re large busted, as UK sizing is employed by a majority of full-figure lingerie brands (Parfait included). The main difference between the two systems lies in the cup sizing, particularly on the larger end of the spectrum — US and UK bra cup sizes only look the same AA-DD.

Beyond that, US bra sizes include DDD/F, DDDD/G, H, I, J, K, L, M, N, and O. On the other hand, UK sizes include E, F, FF, G, GG, H, HH, J, JJ, and K. It’s important to note that most US lingerie brands only go up to a DDDD/G (or H cup at most).

On the other hand, most brands with UK sizing go up to a K cup (which is an O cup in US bra sizing). If you’re already getting a headache from the hassle of trying to translate your bra size, don’t hesitate to use our convenient US to UK bra size conversion chart.

Finding The Best Fit

Clearly, bra sizing is complex — but it’s well worth the effort to get a grasp on the subject before shopping for some new underthings. Still struggling to find the right bra size? We always recommend getting a bra fitting at your local lingerie boutique or department store, especially if you suspect it may have changed due to weight loss/gain, breastfeeding, etc. A professional will be able to determine your size more accurately by taking other fit factors into account beyond your band and cup measurements (such as your breast shape and placement).

Related Post: Why All Women Should Get A Professional Bra Fitting

We Highly Recommend

Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit well and feel good, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitter help.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

Featured lingerie:

Parfait Charlotte Padded Bra 6901 | Parfait Charlotte Bikini 6905 in Bronze

Do have any questions about bra sizing or bra fitting? Leave us a comment below!

As the famous quote goes, “Preparation is the key to success.” This saying couldn’t be more applicable to boudoir photo shoots — the more you prepare, the more likely you are to end up with images that line up with your vision. Furthermore, the more comfortable and confident you’ll feel the day of the shoot, which will certainly show in your photos.

Luckily, we’ve rounded up some must-know tips on skincare and makeup, what to pack, and where to shoot, among other topics.

Follow this guide and you’ll be golden on the day of your boudoir session.

Location, location, location

You’ll likely have a few locations to choose from for your shoot. The most obvious choice is the photographer’s studio, but many photographers also provide the option of doing the shoot in a hotel room or your own home. A hotel room offers the advantage of being able to choose a room that’s tailored to your ideal aesthetic, but will most likely come at an additional charge (many photographers get a sizeable discount, but you’ll still likely have to pay an extra fee). Conducting the shoot in your own abode may make you feel the most comfortable and adds a personal touch to the photos if they’re a gift, but keep in mind that the studio may have better lighting (which is crucial for stunning photos).

Find your true fit

It goes without saying that a boudoir shoot calls for a little lingerie shopping. Before you start your spree for some new lacy underthings, though, definitely be sure you’ve been professionally fitted somewhat recently — after all, only well-fitting undergarments will show off your body best. Most likely your local lingerie boutique offers bra fittings, so consider setting aside an afternoon and swinging by to get fitted before you peruse the store’s selections.

Related: How To Find A Local Boudoir Photographer

Pack with purpose

There are a few items you’ll want to bring along the day of the shoot. These include a small variety of outfit options, depending on how many changes your shoot package allows for. Think beyond bras and panties, and pack a few other less obvious garments that make you feel sexy — whether it’s an off-the-shoulder sweater to pair with a hipster, body-hugging silk camisole, leather jacket to go over your long-line bra or a velvet romper. Also pack some alternate jewelry to instantly switch up a look, some stockings in case you get a run, and a makeup bag for any necessary touch-ups during the shoot.

Relax and recharge

In the couple nights leading up to your shoot, make sure to get plenty of sleep — believe us, exhaustion will show on your skin and around your eyes if you don’t. Consider treating yourself to a little at-home spa experience the night before your session, complete with a face mask, relaxing soak in a warm bath, and a mani/pedi. (Side note: your nails may seem insignificant in the grand scheme of things, but they actually makes a big difference in ensuring you look polished in the photos – and you never know when a close-up will include your hands.)

Get glowing

Skip the self-tanner to avoid potential streaks or unnatural skin tones. Instead, be sure to consistently apply body lotion and face moisturizer to ensure your skin is hydrated and you achieve a natural dewy glow. Speaking of hydration, drink plenty of water (and avoid salt and alcohol) in the days before the shoot — your skin will thank you. Avoid using any new skincare products or getting any treatments done (that includes facials, waxing, etc.) the day before the shoot just in case you have a negative reaction.

Related: What To Wear For A Boudoir Photo Shoot

Be sure your beauty bases are covered

Many boudoir photographers offer add-on services or packages that include on-site professional makeup artists and hairstylists. If your budget allows, this is a stellar idea. Keep in mind that doing your makeup for photographs is a whole different ball game than doing it for everyday wear, and the pros are well-versed in precisely how heavy to go to define your features. Consider bringing along photographs to give them an idea of the look you’re going for. And if you opt to do the beautifying yourself, be sure to do a test run ahead of time and snap a few photos to see how it looks on camera.

Find the right mindset

So much of your success during the photo shoot will depend on your psychological prep work. Think about it: Confidence is what exudes sexiness, and confidence is all mental. When you slip off your robe and the photographer starts snapping away, you want to be in a place of total self-acceptance. Invite your best girlfriends over to help give you a boost and cheer you on, re-read complimentary cards or texts from your S.O., develop a self-assuring mantra to say to yourself in the mirror — whatever it takes to psych yourself out and help you to feel totally comfortable in your own skin.

A boudoir photo session is an investment, so you might as well put the prep work in to make the most of it. And trust us, these careful considerations will pay off — after all, it’s the little things that will go a long way in terms of landing jaw-dropping photos that you’ll cherish for years to come.

Featured image lingerie:

Elissa Unlined Wire Babydoll P5018 in Pearl White

Noticed your breasts are looking a little uneven? Fret not — you’re far from alone. In fact, asymmetrical breasts affect more than half of the female population. And one study of women who were seeking breast augmentation, 88 percent of them had breasts that were out of proportion. Medical professionals aren’t positive on what causes uneven breasts, though some of the factors that could be responsible include menopause, breastfeeding, weight loss or weight gain, and hormonal imbalances. Did you know that even a dominance in one hand (the one you write with) can cause breasts to be slightly asymmetrical as well?

Fortunately, there are plenty of ways to fix this issue with the right bras — here are some foolproof tips for achieving a more proportional bust.

Start with the right style

Certain bra styles are simply better for asymmetrical breasts. Firstly, it’s a good idea to opt only for padded bras, or at least those with lined cups, as they can help to minimize the appearance of any asymmetry.

A molded bra, for example, features superior structure and optimal shaping capabilities, and thus, can create the illusion that your breasts are the same size and shape. If the size difference in your breasts is super subtle, even a T-shirt bra might do the trick.

Another option is to try a push-up bra that has removable padding. That way, you can leave the padding in on the smaller side and remove the padding from the cup on the larger side to even them out. Note that the effectiveness of this approach depends on how significant the breast size difference is.

Focus on the fit

Whatever you do, don’t try to squeeze the larger breast into a cup that’s too small — instead, when choosing bras, make sure they fit the larger breast. There are ways to fill in the cup on the smaller breast (more on that later), but choosing the size based on the smaller breast could cause pain, discomfort, and spillage for the larger breast. Not to mention, you might not get adequate support for the larger breast if you choose a size based on the smaller one.

That being said, bras can vary from style to style, so this is more of a suggestion than a rule. Some cups have more stretch than others, so you can get away with fitting the smaller breast if there is a subtle difference in breast size.

To get the best fit, hook the bra band and scoop all over your breast tissue into the cups (check out our 4-step guide here). Check to make sure that all of your breast tissue is contained within the bra’s underwire. If you notice an extreme amount of spillage or you experience pain or discomfort, try a bra in the next cup size up.

Related: Why All Women Should Get A Professional Bra Fitting

Add volume as needed

When it comes to filling out the smaller breast to make your set look even, there is a wide range of inserts that you can slip into the cups. Also called “breast enhancers,” “bra pads,” “push-up pads,” “cookies,” and “cleavage enhancers,” they come in varying sizes, fullness and shapes depending on your needs and the bra you’ll be inserting them into.

All you have to do is slip the pad under the bottom or side of the cup (you can experiment to see where it needs the most volume). Note that you shouldn’t use more than one pad, or the cup could end up too heavy on that side. Some bras also have pockets sewn into the cups with space for interchangeable pads. Once you’ve inserted the pad, take a minute to adjust the back hooks or straps as needed for a perfect fit. Most importantly, lift your hands in the air as though you are stretching. If your bra band moves up with your hands, your bra band is probably too loose. In order for the cookies to stay in place all day, make sure the band provides a snug fit. You can even try your sister size (go one size down in the band and one size up in the cup), for a snug, supportive fit.

Pro tip: You can also use double-sided fashion tape to ensure the pad stays in place.

Hopefully, by now, you’re feeling a bit better about your uneven breasts. The good news? It’s incredibly common, and there is a myriad of ways to make your boobs look more even. By following these bra tips, you’ll have a more symmetrical looking bust in no time.

Related: 10 Bra Fitting and Lingerie Store Secrets Professional Bra Fitters Want You To Know

We Highly Recommend

Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit well and feel good, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitter help.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

All hail the push-up bra: It’s powerful enough to provide incredible lift while also allowing you to show off your decolletage in low-cut tops and dresses with plunging necklines. Not to mention, a super push-up bra can create the illusion of a fuller bust, adding two cup sizes or more. Women of many shapes and sizes can benefit from push-up bras for various reasons, and while different styles will suit different women’s needs, bodies and preferences, there’s one factor that matters across the board: fit.

A push-up bra must fit flawlessly in order to do its job properly. Which begs the question: How are push-up bras supposed to fit? This guide covers all the basics so you can find a push-up bra that works for you.

How to put it on

There is a right and wrong way to don a push-up bra, and putting it on properly ensures it fits as best as possible.

After fasting the closure on your bra, lean forward and scoop the breast tissue up, placing each into its cup one at a time. Stand upright again and adjust the straps so that they’re snug on your shoulders without digging into them. Now, take some time to arrange your breasts so that they rest on top of any padding.

It’s all about the fit

When it comes to the fit of push-up bras, it can be easy to mistake a proper fit — that’s because this style is obviously designed to create more cleavage, which makes it a little harder to tell when the cups are too small or just right. For the most flattering look, the cups should lay flat against your breast tissue without creating any bulging spillover at the top (that means the ever-dreaded “quad boob”). The cups should never leave any indents or marks on your breast tissue from wearing it (that’s another sign it’s too tight). If the cups are puckering or gaping at all at the top or sides, you’ll know you need to go down in size.

As the band will very gradually stretch out, you want to be able to comfortably wear the bra on the tightest hook-and-eye closure when you buy it. That way, you can ensure that you’ll continue to get optimal support over time.

Look at the center gore (the panel between the cups) as well as the underwire and make sure that both lay flat against your body. If the underwire is tilted away and not quite resting on your chest, the cup size is likely too small. Then take a peek at the band — it should lie at an even level all the way around your torso from front to back. A band that’s riding up is one of the top signs of an ill-fitting push-up bra.

A push-up bra is one style that you’ll no doubt be grateful to have in your arsenal. However, you’ll only reap the rewards of this particular piece of lingerie if you’ve managed to find your perfect fit. It’s worth noting that with push-up bras especially, your size may vary slightly from style to style and brand to brand. That’s why it can be helpful to get some assistance from staff at a local lingerie boutique when shopping for push-up bras. Not only can they conduct a professional fitting, but they can also determine your exact size in any specific product since it may range. A flattering appearance is not the only reason to prioritize fit, either. A push-up bra that’s the wrong size means risking inadequate support, the constant need for adjustment, chafing and other discomfort.

We Highly Recommend

Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit well and feel good, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitterhelp.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

You’ve mustered up some much-needed courage, found the right photographer, and set the date: with your boudoir photo shoot all set to go, now it’s time to consider your wardrobe. Picking out what you’re going to wear can be half the fun — but it can also be a daunting task when you know these are photos you or your S.O. will likely have forever. Are you supposed to stick with just a bra and panties? Or are you allowed to cover up a bit more? What about accessories?

Don’t stress. In this guide, we’ve outlined some ideas for selecting your boudoir photo shoot attire.

Identify a theme

When you imagine your dream photos, do they have a vintage pin-up vibe? Hollywood glam? Playful girl-next-door? Is the overall look you’re going for sporty, sweet, sultry or sophisticated? Thinking through the theme and the vibe you’re trying to establish is a crucial first step in choosing your lingerie.

For example, a red and black satin padded bra with a matching high-waist brief panty, and thigh-highs works perfectly if you’re trying to strike a retro starlet look. Conversely, an unlined wire bra in vibrant lapis blue with floral lace, a satin bow and a jewel along with a matching hipster strike a note of modern elegance, particularly if paired with nude pumps. If this is a wedding present, you may choose to embrace the bridal theme, opting for a veil, some pearl earrings and a scalloped lace underwire bralette in pearl white — or, if you’re seeking more coverage, an ultra-feminine unlined wire babydoll in pearl white.

Shop smart

Before you go busting out your wallet, shop your own closet — it can be helpful to use something you’ve already worn, as you’re likely to feel super comfortable in it. Seek out the pieces that best reflect your personal style, and most importantly, give you a serious dose of confidence.

Once you’ve assessed your own collection, it’s time to treat yourself to some exciting new pieces. Keep in mind that most photographers will allow for at least one wardrobe change for certain packages, so you’ll want to have some options to pick from on the day of the shoot. Also, it can be helpful to bring a close girlfriend on your hunt for unmentionables. She’ll be able to give you a second opinion on what’s most flattering on your figure while also taking some of the stress out of the experience with some confidence-boosting compliments and lots of laughter.

Related: 5 Reasons Why You Should Do A Boudoir Photo Shoot

Parfait Matilda Contour Plunge Bra P5311 | Parfait Matilda Bikini P5313 in Bisque

Make it personal

Are these photos a gift? Then consider bringing along something of your significant other’s to add a personal touch to the shoot. You might slip on one of his ties, a baseball hat or even a jersey from his favorite sports team (which just so happens to look sexy with a pair of boyshorts). A button-down shirt looks impossibly seductive, particularly when worn at least slightly unbuttoned over a lacy bra and panty set. You could also include a meaningful gift, such as a bracelet he bought you on that vacation in Cannes or a silk robe he gave you for your last anniversary.

Get creative with coverage

A bra and panties are not your only option for a boudoir photo shoot. In fact, you might be surprised at just how smoldering a sheer top, off-the-shoulder sweater or a simple tank looks with a pair of panties when you’re in the right pose. A cardigan that’s unbuttoned to reveal the top of a bra has a ladylike but come-hither vibe (not to mention it draws the eye right to your cleavage). Even an open trench coat or a fur can add some visual intrigue to your lingerie set.

Related: Preparing For A Boudoir Photo Shoot

Parfait Sandrine Plunge Longline Bra P5351 | Parfait Sandrine Brazilian Thong P5354 in Cameo Rose

Surely, the right outfits can make or break your boudoir photo shoot — but what’s right depends on your own personal preferences, comfort level and desired look. Choose pieces that you feel self-assured and sexy, no matter what they are, and you’re sure to snag some winning shots.

Featured image lingerie:

 Parfait Charlotte Padded Bra 6901 | Parfait Charlotte Highwaist Brief 6917 in Dusty Rose

Today, we take for granted that we have a specific garment designed to keep our breasts in place — lending them support, definition, lift and shaping — all while making us feel more comfortable throughout the day and making our clothes fall even more flawlessly on our bodies. Because there was, in fact, a time during which bras didn’t exist (a frightening thought, we know). So, why exactly were these helpful little undergarments invented? And how?

Here’s a brief history lesson on our most beloved unmentionable: the bra.

Humble beginnings: The “Backless Brassiere”

The invention of the first modern bra can technically be traced back to November 3, 1914, when Mary Phelps Jacobs received a U.S. patent for her ingenious creation. The socialite (who later changed her name to Caresse Crosby) was just 19 when she came up with the idea of the “Backless Brassiere.”

The stroke of genius struck when she was getting ready for a debutante ball. After slipping into a stiff corset and corset cover, she noticed that it was poking through her sheer evening gown. In an instant, she asked her maid to bring her two pocket handkerchiefs and a bit of pink ribbon — and they worked together to sew the materials together to form a garment with lightweight silk cups that tied around the neck. Her invention caused quite a stir among the ladies at the ball, with many other debutantes intrigued as to how she was able to dance with such freedom. Some asked her to sew one for them, and soon, strangers were offering her money to make them one as well. After landing the patent for her bra, she was able to sell some to department stores, but her business never really took off. So she sold the patent to the Warner Brothers Corset Co.

Mary Phelps Jacobs’ ‘Backless Brassiere’ (1914) | Credit: Wikipedia Commons

 Ancient roots

The truth is, Phelps’ invention was not the first iteration of this undergarment. So, when did women start wearing bras? Well, technically, women have been using something to conceal or support their breasts since ancient Greece, when they bound their chests with strips of fabric (usually linen or wool) that were tied or pinned in the back. This piece, which was referred to as an apodesmos, looked much like a bandeau bikini top. Roman women also wrapped their chests to keep their breasts in place while engaging in athletic activities — a far cry from the modern-day sports bra.

During the Middle Ages, women were believed to have worn an undergarment that resembled a camisole with a shelf bra built into it. These garments were used mainly to compress the breasts.

In Ancient Greece, women wore breastbands made of leather or cloth called Stethodesme or Fascia | Illustrateur : Saint-Elme Gautier – « Le_Corset_à_travers_les_âges » (1893) d’Ernest Leoty ; page 26 ; fig. 2 | Credit: Wikipedia Commons

The rise and fall of the corset

The corset, which was designed to result in an exaggerated hourglass shape, made its debut during the 16th century — and quickly became a must for Western upper- and middle-class women to wear. Corsets continued to become more elaborate and constricting with the addition of whale bone stays and other features that restricted the torso and lifted the breasts. It wasn’t long, though, before physicians began blaming corsets for a range of issues, from broken ribs to sudden fainting spells.

Then, in 1917, the U.S. War Industries Board asked American women to cease buying corsets, as the metal used in them was crucial for battleships, ammunition and other supplies. As fate would have it, this happened to be close to when the modern-day bra made its debut. Now, women had something to replace their uncomfortable corsets with.

 Classic Corset Co.’s ‘Grecian Bust Girdle’ (1901) | Credit: Wikipedia Commons

So there you have it. The bra has certainly come a long way since its initial emergence, benefiting from years of innovation in fabric, technology, and design. (Honestly, can you imagine if they bras were still one-size-fits-all? We don’t really like to think about it.) While women have been looking for ways to secure their breasts for many centuries, the bra as we basically know it stems from one crafty woman who simply wanted to ensure her gown looked smooth on her body, and that she was able to dance unconstrained. And don’t we all?

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First thing’s first: Props to you for finally deciding to take the plunge and do a boudoir photo shoot. Whether it’s for your husband-to-be, current spouse, or just for you (perhaps the best reason of all), we commend your courage — and can assure you that you won’t regret it! Now, though, comes the task of choosing a photographer.

Ultimately, finding the perfect photographer depends on your individual needs and preferences. Here are some helpful tips while starting your hunt: 

Search smart

The Internet is the most obvious place to start your search, but that doesn’t mean you won’t have to do some vetting in the process. Start by entering the search terms:
“Best Boudoir photography in [your city, state].” Look for photographers who have professional websites as well as Google business entries, and who specialize in boudoir photography in particular. In addition to scoping out their websites, review their social media presence — they’ll ideally have an established Instagram and Facebook page.

Another option is to use Thumbtack.com to find boudoir photographers near you. You can search by zip code, as well as a number of other features to narrow down your results. These features include where you’d like the shoot to take place (studio, your home, hotel), what style of shoot you’d prefer (glamour, pin-up, natural, romantic, fine art), how many final edited shots you’d like (ranging from 1-5 to 35-50), what format you’d like the images in (digital download, flash drive, CD, physical proofs/prints, album), and your estimated budget ($100-150 to $1,000).

You could also ask around at your local lingerie boutique. The staff may be able to point you in the direction of a photographer, and it’s always reassuring to get a personal recommendation. (Besides — you’ll likely need to swing by your go-to shop anyway for some new pieces — like a padded bra with elegant floral bouquet lace, or a wild pink longline bra, perhaps?)

Read the reviews

Be sure to check any reviews you can find on the photographer’s Google business page, Yelp page, or Facebook page. Many photographers will also feature testimonials from previous clients on their website, and reviewing these will hopefully give you a sense of the experience as a whole from someone who’s actually worked with them.

Related: 5 Reasons Why You Should Do A Boudoir Photo Shoot

Scan their work

Take the time to look through the photographer’s portfolio. After all, this is the best way to get a sense of their aesthetic. What kind of lighting do they typically use? Do the poses look natural? What’s the general mood that the images evoke? What about the settings the shoots take place in? Even taking note of how many models they have in their portfolio can be useful, as this may give you an idea of how much experience that particular photographer has. And since you’re obviously seeking a photographer who manages to get consistently stellar shots, you may want to scope out their blogs as well.

Ask the right questions

Once you’ve found a photographer you’re interested in, set up a time to chat with them either over the phone or in person. You can obviously send some preliminary questions via email, but we always recommend meeting the photographer before actually booking a shoot — this will allow you to gauge whether you feel comfortable enough to work with them.

Ask them about their retouching services — do they edit every photo? Is the studio space is included? If you’re interested in doing the shoot from the comfort of your own home, is that an option they offer? Some photographers also provide professional hair and makeup, and if you’re interested, make sure to ask whether they’re add-on services. If these photos are a gift for a special someone, you likely have a timeline on which you’ll need them back. In that case, ask whether your deadline is realistic to have the finished images.

Finding the ideal photographer for your boudoir session takes a little prep work (and patience) — but your research is sure to pay off when you see the stunning final images. Take these tips into account and you’re sure to find someone who can make your dream shoot a reality.

Related: Preparing For A Boudoir Photo Shoot

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To boudoir or not to boudoir? That is the question. You’ve been toying with the idea for some time, and for whatever reason, are having some doubts. And we’re here to tell you — with total confidence: yes, you should book that photo shoot. In fact, you’re bound to come out the other side with a slew of rewards for having taken the risk.

Still on the fence? Here are our top reasons why you should do a boudoir photo shoot.

It’s empowering

We all have insecurities. Those dissatisfactions can get the better of us when we unknowingly start to obsess over them. And a boudoir photo shoot can be just the thing to remind you: you are beautiful just as you are. That part of yourself that you wish was a little bit bigger, or smaller, or longer, or rounder — it fades away when you see how fabulous you really look and how unnoticeable that “imperfection” really is (a talented photographer and the right lighting will certainly help).

It’s a stellar gift for your S.O.… and yourself

Just take a moment and imagine the look on your S.O.’s face when they open a photo album to this sensual surprise: The woman they love in some luxe lingerie posing like a professional model. There’s hardly a more intimate gift to your husband-to-be, significant other, or spouse. After all, they already think you look gorgeous in a messy bun and sweats — so just imagine how much you’ll stun them in a wine red balconet bra with elegant floral lace. Even if you’re not planning this shoot as a gift, you owe it to yourself to play glamour girl for a day, getting pampered by a professional hair stylist and/or makeup artist and sporting some seductive underthings you may not normally slip on. Many of us women tend to put others first, and rarely do something for ourselves, “just because” — and a boudoir shoot offers the perfect opportunity to indulge.

Related: What Is A Boudoir Photo Shoot?

It’s an excuse to buy new lingerie

We all love a reason to go shopping, and a boudoir photo shoot presents precisely that. After all, you’ll want to seek out lingerie that’s tailored to your body, enhancing every curve and accentuating all the parts you love the most. Lingerie shopping is something that some of us feel guilty doing — as if it’s an unnecessary luxury. And booking a boudoir shoot gives you an excuse to take the time to hunt down those pieces that will really work for you. Besides, you’re bound to get a ton of use out of them well past the shoot, whether it’s on your honeymoon, anniversary, or even just a standard date night. Been eyeing a flirty white babydoll or fiery tango red lace underwire bra but wondering whether it’s a practical purchase? There’s no better reason to buy it than a boudoir shoot.

It can be a ton of fun

The right photographer will make you feel comfortable throughout the shoot — but moreover, will keep the mood light, offering words of encouragement and likely a few laughs. To boost the fun factor even further, make it a girls’ day. Invite a couple of your best gal pals along to sip some bubbly on set and cheer you on from the sidelines. You can even bring them along for your lingerie shopping ahead of the shoot to get their honest opinions on any purchases.

It’s a way to celebrate your brand of sexy

A boudoir photo shoot may give you a glimpse at a side of yourself that even you haven’t seen. We tend to be our own worst critics, focusing on the negative aspects we’d like to change rather than celebrating what makes us uniquely beautiful. So if anything, you should book a shoot for the sake of your own self-confidence.

The idea of stripping down to your unmentionables and posing for a photographer may be intimidating, and understandably so. But with a pro behind the camera and a little preparation, it’s totally possible for you to have an empowering — and downright enjoyable — experience.

Related: Preparing For A Boudoir Photo Shoot

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Perhaps you’ve heard a girlfriend nervously talking about getting one or stumbled across some racy photos online in a photographer’s portfolio. Boudoir photo shoots have become increasingly common in recent years — and for whatever reason, the idea has piqued your interest. Now you’re wondering: Exactly what is a boudoir photo shoot, and what does it entail?

Without further ado, we’ll dive right into all the details you need to know before booking one of these sensual shoots yourself.

What are boudoir photos?

The French word “boudoir” refers to a woman’s bedroom or private dressing room. So, as the name suggests, these photo shoots feature a woman wearing some form of lingerie in an intimate setting, whether it’s their very own bedroom or else a studio that is set up to look like a bedroom or dressing room.

What do I wear?

Don’t fret, nudity is not required for these shoots — in fact, it’s rare, as the idea of this French boudoir mystique is to leave a little something to the imagination. The level of clothing is entirely up to you, of course. Some women may opt for a demi-cup bra and a pair of hipsters, while some might go bra-less with an artful pose in which their breasts are covered. Others might go a more demure route with a babydoll or even a silky robe over some bikini panties. Most photographers offer multiple packages that allow for a varying number of outfit changes.

What’s the right occasion to get one?

More and more brides are seeking out boudoir photo shoots and with good reason. The photos from these sessions make for a sultry surprise as a wedding gift for the husband-to-be. They’re also a popular choice for an anniversary or Valentine’s Day present.

Guess what? You don’t really need a reason to do a boudoir photo shoot, and you certainly don’t need to do one for someone else. Maybe you’re feeling more comfortable in your own skin than ever before, and want to capture that inner goddess and remember her forever. We can’t think of a better way to feel empowered than by stripping down to some luxe lingerie, posing and documenting how you look when you feel your sexiest.

Related: Preparing For A Boudoir Photo Shoot

How do I go about booking one?

If you’re considering a boudoir photo shoot, be sure to do a ton of research on local photographers. You definitely want to choose a photographer who specializes in boudoir-style shoots, as they demand special considerations. Take the time to scan through their portfolios to get a sense of their style, paying attention to the lighting, poses, angles, etc. they use. You should definitely book a consultation if possible to meet the photographer in person as well as see their studio. After all, you’re going to be taking your clothes off in front of this person — so you might as well gauge how comfortable you feel with them. The right photographer will establish an environment that’s super relaxed and supportive.

What else do I need to know?

Some boudoir photographers offer professional makeup and/or hair as an add-on service. Unless you feel immensely confident about your own skills (or have a friend that you trust), using the in-house glam squad can be well worth it. The fact is that there are unique considerations that must be made in regards to makeup when you’re getting photographed to ensure your skin looks flawless and your features are expertly defined.

As far as poses go, rest assured that a seasoned boudoir photographer will no doubt have an arsenal of ideas to suggest throughout the shoot. Still, it’s a good idea to try a few out in front of a mirror at home to see what feels natural as well as shows off your body, style and personality best.

All in all, a boudoir photo shoot serves as a memorable gift for your significant other or for yourself. The most important thing to remember is to have fun — believe us, it’ll show through in the final images, and nothing is sexier than a confident woman enjoying herself.

Related: How To Find A Local Boudoir Photographer

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