It’s OK to admit it. You’ve decided to pick out some lingerie for the lady in your life, but there’s just one little problem: you don’t speak the language. And it’s no surprise – with so many different cuts, fits, and details, it’s a whole new fashion territory, and unless you understand the terminology, it’ll be next to impossible to figure out which pieces are right for her.

Fret not – we’ve decoded some of the most common styles to choose from so you can be a smarter shopper.

Bras

Padded bra 

Parfait Charlotte Padded Bra 6901 | Parfait Charlotte Bikini 6905 in Bronze

As the name suggests, these bras contain padding that helps to add some fullness to the appearance of the bustline. Make sure she wears padded bras before opting for this style (you’ll be able to feel the padding), as some women prefer an unlined bra, particularly if they are already large-busted.

Push-up bra 

Parfait Lynn Push-Up Strapless Bra P13112 | Parfait Lynn Brazilian Thong P13014 in Black

These bras are designed to enhance cleavage, but contrary to popular belief, aren’t necessarily only for small-breasted women. Many women like the lift and support they get from this style. Again, be sure your girlfriend has at least one pushup bra (or has expressed wanting one) before giving her one.

Plunge bra 

Parfait Sandrine Plunge Longline Bra P5351 | Parfait Sandrine Hipster P5355 in Cameo Rose

Your girlfriend is bound to reach for this style when she’s sporting a low-cut dress or top, as it’s cut with a plunging neckline. The result? She can show off more skin without her bra showing. A plunge bra is always a sexy choice, but it’s also a practical addition to most lingerie collections.

Demi-cup bra

Parfait Casey Unlined Wire Bra 2802 | Parfait Casey Boyshort 2805 in Nude

The cups on these bras have slightly less coverage. However, demi-cup bras can still offer sufficient coverage – but they definitely provide a hint of cleavage, making them a perfect compromise between a full-cup bra and a plunge bra.

Related: The Guy’s Guide To Buying Lingerie For Your Girlfriend

Panties

Thong 

Parfait Lynn Push-Up Strapless Bra P13112 | Parfait Lynn Brazilian Thong P13014 in Nude

With minimal coverage in the back, the thong style is perfect for avoiding visible panty lines under form-fitting ensembles while also flaunting her backside. Note that the Brazilian thong typically features a lower rise and a tad more fabric in the back at the top of the derrière.

Hipster 

Parfait Sandrine Plunge Longline Bra P5351 | Parfait Sandrine Hipster P5355 in Black

This playful fit offers moderate coverage in the front and the back, and extends a little farther down the leg than the bikini. True to its name, the hipster typically sits lower on the hips, and comes in both comfy everyday styles as well as sheer, lacy ones for special occasions.

Bikini 

Parfait Elissa Strapless Contour Underwire Bra P5011 | Parfait Elissa Bikini P5013 in Nude

With universally flattering high-cut legs, a moderate to low rise and a cut that works under most clothes, the bikini is a basic that most women will have in their collection in some form – and with the right detailing, can still be undeniably sexy.

Boyshort

Parfait Casey Plunge Molded Bra 2801 | Parfait Casey Boyshort 2805 in Ruby Wine

This style is often confused with the hipster. However, boyshort panties offer slightly more coverage at the top of the thigh and in the back. They’re a popular pick among many women for the comfort factor.

Brief

Parfait Charlotte Padded Bra 6901 | Parfait Charlotte High Waist Brief 6917 in Red/Black

With the most coverage of the bunch, the brief extends slightly farther down past her hips than a bikini. Some women like the tummy-slimming effect and retro vibe that the high-waist brief boasts.

Other Styles

Babydoll

Parfait Elissa Unlined Wire Babydoll P5018 in Pearl White

This lingerie piece is essentially a very short, sleeveless nightie. A babydoll is a phenomenal gift choice because it’s a garment she can lounge around in and sleep in while still feeling a little bit sultry.

Knowledge is power – and with your newfound understanding of lingerie’s many different fits and forms, you’re ready to pick out some luxe underthings your girlfriend will certainly cherish for a long time.

Related: When Is The Best Time Of The Year To Buy Lingerie?

Featured image lingerie:

Parfait Casey Plunge Molded Bra 2801 | Parfait Casey Boyshort 2805 in Ruby Wine

It’s OK to admit it: When it comes to lingerie, your expertise extends about as far as the bras and panties you wear on the daily. As far as babydolls, bodysuits and bustiers go, though? You’re (understandably) bewildered.

There may be many garments to choose from, but getting to know them all will help you to figure out your own individual style, and thus, shop more strategically. Alas, let’s review some of the more common lingerie pieces.

Babydoll

This ultra-short nightie typically is just long enough to cover your derriere. With an empire waist, a form-fitting top and flared skirt, the babydoll draws attention away from your mid-section/thighs, highlighting your bust. This piece often has feminine detailing as well, such as ruffles, bows, ribbons or lace trim. Babydolls come in a range of fabrics, from sheer mesh and silk to chiffon and cotton. They are a particularly popular for gifts given that they’re universally flattering and also slightly easier to fit properly than a bra and panty set.

Fun fact: The term stems from the 1956 film Baby Doll, in which star Carroll Baker is lying on her bed wearing one in the opening scene.

Chemise

Often confused with a babydoll, this nightie hangs more straight, fitting more closely near the hips, and also falls longer — usually somewhere between mid-thigh and the knees. Chemises can be worn to bed, lounging around the house or under a dress as a slip substitute if they don’t have too much elaborate detailing that might show through). Styles range from more modest opaque materials to sultry, sheer ones.

Slip

Usually worn under dresses or skirts to achieve a smoother look (and avoid fabric clinging to your skin), the slip is one of the more practical lingerie pieces. They can vary a lot in material and length, but they are almost always sleeveless and hang closer to the body than a babydoll.

Related Post: The Best Lingerie For Your Body Type

Bustier

At the top, this piece looks exactly like an underwire bra, but a bustier extends farther down the waist, offering some smoothing and shaping benefits in addition to the bust support. While this undergarment is often mixed up with a corset, bustiers differ in that they have less boning (if any at all), less waist cinching and feature adjustable straps (which are sometimes detachable) as well as structured cups. The bustier may be fastened with hook-and-eye closures or a zipper, either in the front or back. This piece is often worn with stockings and garters.

Camisole

This sleeveless undergarment, often referred to as a “cami,” extends down to the waistline, and may or may not feature a built-in bra. The camisole comes in many fabrics, including satin, silk, lace, and mesh, and can be worn under a sheer blouse or as a layering piece. Depending on the fabric and fit, this piece may offer some subtle shaping.

Teddy

Think of this garment as a combination of a camisole and panties in one. Some teddies are skin-tight, but many are loose-fitting. They may be unlined or lined, have underwire or no structured cups, and can feature a variety of closures. A teddy can be worn as sleepwear, or layered under a top or dress, depending on the cut and fabric. As far as coverage goes, it can range from very little (thong/minimal coverage) to a lot (brief/moderate coverage).

Related Post: The Most Popular Bra Styles Decoded

Bodysuit

Not unlike a teddy, a bodysuit resembles a one-piece bathing suit. However, this piece is usually far more form-fitting and aimed at offering more support for the breasts as well as shaping and smoothing (whereas a teddy tends to be more simply for show). You may find bodysuits useful for layering when you don’t want to worry about a blouse riding up (since they always stay tucked in). Depending on the style, a bodysuit can also act as a substitute for a tank under a jacket. This garment may be found with a multitude of cuts on the bottom, from thong to bikini or brief.

Garter belt/suspender belt

This little accessory is designed to hold up stockings — it circles your waist, and features dangling straps that either snap or clip onto the hosiery. Garter belts may be made of lace, silk, leather, or a number of other materials. They can vary in their vibe from sweet and playful to more racy or exotic.

Feeling more confident about your lingerie knowledge? Now you’re primed to pick out some new pieces to spice up collection.

Featured image lingerie:

Parfait Kitty Underwire Babydoll 2108 in Red/Black

Many pregnant women are well aware that they’ll need nursing bras to accommodate for fluctuations in their breast size. However, one of the most common questions from soon-to-be moms is when they should be buying them.

Buy the bras too soon before childbirth and you could end up with the wrong size entirely because you don’t know how much your breasts will grow — and most women will experience an increase of anywhere from one to three cup sizes. To make matters more complicated, your bra size may change over the course of breastfeeding. Ideally, you want a nursing bra that you feel entirely supported in — not only does it ensure you’re comfortable during breastfeeding, but it makes the process easier for you and your newborn, too.

So, when is the optimal time to buy this essential undergarment? Here’s what you need to know.

The optimal time frame

First thing’s first: When the milk first comes in, the breasts are typically filled with more milk than may be necessary. The body prepares to feed twins or triplets, and will regulate when it determines the suckling pattern only includes one baby. Then, you’ll see your breast size stabilize. As a result, it’s best to wait at least 14 to 21 days before purchasing a nursing bra.

That doesn’t necessarily mean you have to go bra-less for the first couple weeks, however. Opt for ultra-flexible, wire-free bras or nursing tanks to hold you over. With plenty of stretch, these options will accommodate for any breast size changes until your milk production normalizes.

If you simply don’t want to wait until then to wear nursing bras, then the best time to get fitted and purchase them is at about eight months into your pregnancy. The reason for this is that your breasts will be relatively close to the same size as they are several weeks post childbirth.

Tips for true comfort

It’s always advisable to get fitted by a professional, but especially when it comes to nursing bras. You don’t want to risk compromising comfort while breastfeeding, and it’s crucial to make sure your size is as accurate as possible given that there may be subtle changes in your breast size over time. Leave it to the experts to determine your size and you’ll find a flawless fit that makes you feel secure and supported throughout breastfeeding.

You’ll also want to seek out a nursing bra with at least three rows of hooks and eyes in the back, as this will allow you to loosen and tighten it as needed. When you first get fitted for your nursing bra, you should be on the loosest hook and eye closure since that’s when your breasts will be the most engorged. As your rib cage contracts, you’ll then be able to gradually move to tighter hooks.

All in all, the best time to buy nursing bras is several weeks post-birth, but you can also opt to shop for them eight months into your pregnancy if you want to be prepared sooner. Regardless of which time frame you choose, be sure to get fitted by an expert and select a comfy, stretchy bra with sufficient adjustable closures so that you get maximum wear out of it during the breastfeeding stage.

Related: Is It Safe To Wear An Underwire Bra While Nursing?

We Highly Recommend

Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitter help.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

Not all underthings are created equal. In fact, each style is specifically constructed to perform unique functions, meaning certain bras serve certain body types and ensembles better than others. If you’re well-versed on which purpose each bra serves, you can grow a more practical collection while also dressing smarter.

Whether you’re seeking the perfect bra for a clingy cocktail dress, a shoulder-baring blouse or a basic tank, read on to learn the ins and outs of each and every common style.

Demi-Cup Bra

Parfait Charlotte Padded Bra 6901 in Dusty Rose, Wild Pink, Icy Blue, Purple Wine, Red/Black

All about this style: Also known as a shelf bra or balconette bra, this style features cups that are cut slightly lower, only covering about half to three-quarters of the breasts. As a result, the demi-cup bra puts your decolletage oh-so-subtly on display (though not as much as a plunge bra, as this style has a higher center gore).

Wear it with: A low-cut blouse or dress, as long as it doesn’t have a full-on plunging neckline — or under anything that calls for a little extra oomph in the cleavage department.

Our top picks: The Tess Unlined Wire Bra, which is super comfy yet features stunning lace detailing, or, if you’re seeking a little sassier with lined cups, the ever-popular Charlotte Padded Bra, which comes in a multitude of both neutral and vibrant colors.

T-Shirt Bra

Matilda Contour Plunge Padded Bra P5311 in Bisque

All about this style: With seamless, lightly padded cups, it’s easy to see why the T-shirt bra is a top pick for everyday wear. Did we mention they’re also super comfy?

Wear it with: The name says it all — this is the perfect style to sport underneath T-shirts, as well as tanks, sweaters and any other knitwear. It’s an especially smart pick under pieces that are form-fitting, as this ultra-smooth style isn’t as likely to show through.

Our top picks: The Lynn T-shirt bra, which is virtually invisible under even the tightest knits thanks to smooth, seamless cups. Looking for something with a little more pizzazz? Then we recommend the Aline T-shirt bra, which gets some added visual intrigue from striped jacquard microfiber fabric.

Push Up Bra

Parfait Lynn Push-Up Strapless Bra P13112 in Black

All about this style: Women with smaller breasts who want to create the illusion of a larger bust appreciate this style for accomplishing just that. The push up bra, which features angled cups and padding to lift the breasts upward, can work for women with larger busts who are seeking lift as well, as the padding varies from style to style.

Wear it with: Something sexy, like a little cocktail dress, or a body-hugging dressy top.

Our top pick: The Lynn Super Push Up Bra — it doesn’t have the word “super” in the name for nothing. This style can boost the bustline by two sizes or more, and as an additional bonus, it features a plunging neckline to accommodate your lowest-cut dresses and tops.

Full Cup Bra

Parfait Enora Minimizer Bra P5272 in Nude

All about this style: Looking for maximum coverage? This style provides precisely that — which is why women with larger bustlines often prefer full cup bras, which also tend to lend excellent support and shaping.

Wear it with: Professional attire, or otherwise conservative ensembles. The full cup bra honestly works under anything, as long as it’s not low-cut.

Our top pick: The Carole Unlined Wire Bra — the expertly constructed three-part cups ensure you feel secure all day long, while lace detailing is nothing short of striking.

Bralette

Description: Light and lacy, these bras are typically free of padding and molded separated cups. However, many don’t offer as much support as traditional bras. The one exception? A bralette with seamed cups and a supportive band, which offers some additional lift.

Wear it with: An off-the-shoulder sweater or knit top if the bralette boasts decorative straps that are meant to be seen. As it’s so lightweight, it’s also an ideal option on hot days under breezy dresses, or under casual clothes, while lounging around the house or running errands.

Our top picks: The Dalis Bralette, which is both pretty and practical thanks to stretch lace, super soft modal and a wide bra band for extra support. We also love the lacy Adriana Bralette and Ciara Bralette. Both offer sexy shaping and lightweight support for D+ cup sizes.

Related: Bralette vs Bra: What’s The Difference Between A Bra and A Bralette?

Plunge Bra

Parfait Jeanie Plunge Molded Bra 4801 in Panther Print

All about this style: Both the cups and the center gore on this style dip down much lower, creating a very deep neckline. Some plunge bras contain push-up like padding as well for contouring and lift.

Wear it with: Anything with a plunging neckline, since it won’t show like other bra styles would.

Our top pick(s): The Casey Plunge Molded Bra, which provides excellent shaping as well as support, and an accent bow at the base of the plunging neckline for a feminine, flirty touch.

Longline Bra

Parfait Sandrine Plunge Longline Bra P5351 in French Blue

All about this style: This style (which typically features underwire but no padding), is a vintage throwback, with substantial support and excellent shaping. As the bottom of the bra extends slightly farther down (in the way a corset would, but not as far), the longline bra can accentuate your curves by smoothing out your waist.

Wear it with: Formal dresses that demand a flawless silhouette, or a fashion-forward blouse.

Our top pick(s): The Sandrine Plunge Longline Bra — Ultra-supportive boning lends practicality to the style, while dainty floral lace adds a certain romance. Plus, it doubles as a plunge bra.

Strapless Bra

Parfait Elissa Contour Underwire Strapless Bra P5011 in Pearl White

All about this style: While this particular style can range in fit and features such as underwire and padding, it is worn without straps (though most strapless bras are sold with removable straps), so you won’t have to worry about straps showing when you’re flaunting your shoulders.

Wear it with: Any top or dress sans straps, of course! You may also reach for a strapless bra when you want to take the weight off your shoulders and give them a break.

Our top pick(s): The Jeanie Strapless Contour Bra, which will stay in place all day due to a specially engineered band and also won’t show underneath your clothes due to smooth, seamless cups.

Sports Bra

Parfait Active Sports Bra P5541 in Infinity Blue, Black/White

All about this style: This bra is designed specifically with physical activity in mind, and therefore usually constructed with moisture-wicking material and wider or racerback straps for extra support. Styles with encapsulated cups are ideal for women with larger breasts, and in general, it’s helpful to seek out sports bras with adjustable hook-and-eye closures and straps for a perfect fit.

Wear it with: Your favorite workout top, shorts or leggings and supportive sneakers, naturally.

Our Pick: The Parfait Active Sports Bra, which features moisture-wicking Coolpass fabric, a sturdy bra band for additional support, and wide straps that can be adjusted for a customized fit.

Related: Do You Wear A Bra Under Your Sports Bra?

Soft Cup (Wireless) Bra

Emma Wire-Free Soft Padded Bra P5491 in Bare

All about this style: This wire-free style may not lend quite as much uplift as an underwire bra, but can still provide shaping and some support. Many styles feature elements like inner support slings and multi-part cups to help with structure in the absence of underwire.

Wear it with: Loungewear, sleepwear, or under loose-fitting T-shirts and sweaters for a comfy alternative.

Our top pick(s): The smooth, moulded cups and a supportive fit of the Emma Wire-Free Soft Padded Bra make it the perfect wireless bra to wear under t-shirts.

Minimizer Bra

Parfait Enora Minimizer Bra P5272 in Whisper Blue

All about this style: Seeking to make your bustline look smaller? The minimizer bra accomplishes exactly that by distributing the breast tissue more evenly across your chest (as opposed to gathering it towards the center).

Wear it with: A button-down shirt or dress — particularly if you typically struggle with pesky gaping between the button holes.

Our top pick(s): The Enora Minimizer Bra, which can reduce the bustline by 1 to 1.5 inches or more. Not to mention, the all-over jacquard lace makes it downright pretty to look at.

Convertible Bra

All about this style: This multi-way style features straps that are adjustable and detachable (typically at the back), meaning it can be worn in a wide variety of different ways. As a result, the convertible bra is arguably one of the most versatile styles you can have in your collection.

Wear it with: T-shirts, some racerback tops, and any shirt that requires a bra with criss-cross straps.

Each and every bra type features unique features that are designed to perform specific functions and work with certain clothes. Now, armed with some insight into the differences between many styles, you’re better equipped to build your perfect collection.

We Highly Recommend

Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitter help.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

One of the best things about lingerie is that it can instantly highlight your favorite parts of your body, whether it’s your hips, legs, cleavage or derriere. Of course, women come in a wide array of shapes and sizes, and therefore, the same undergarments don’t necessarily work for everyone.

The key to finding lingerie you feel confident in lies in first pinpointing which assets you want to show off, and then identifying garments that are cut to do just that. Luckily for you, this guide should help lead you to the unmentionables that were made for figures like yours.

Small bust

Parfait Casey Plunge Molded Bra 2801 in Black, Nude, Navy Blue, Java, Panther Print

Real talk: A push-up bra isn’t your only option if you’re small-breasted. Sure, they’ll add some instant volume up top if that’s what you’re going for. But if you aren’t necessarily looking to dramatically boost your cleavage, try a skin-baring plunge bra, which will create the illusion of more volume up top in a subtler way, or a bralette, to show off your bust. You can also draw the eye toward your bottom with a hipster in a vibrant color or a bikini panty in a playful print.

Large bust

Parfait Marion Contour Padded Bra P5391 in Lapis Blue | Parfait Lydie Contour Padded Bra P5441 in Silver Blue | Parfait Sandrine Plunge Molded Bra P5351 in French Blue

Well-endowed women are likely seeking out lingerie that offers adequate support up top, but that doesn’t mean their lingerie can’t be sultry. Look for a molded bra, which helps with shaping while keeping breasts in place, and opt for one in a fun color or with beautiful accents, of course. A padded bra with three-part cups in a striking floral bouquet lace is stunning to look at, but will also make you feel secure. If you’d like to show off your assets up top, a demi cup bra is a solid choice because it still offers moderate coverage and stellar support while offering a peek of cleavage. And if you’re trying to achieve some balance with a smaller lower body, then go for a simple bra in a solid color and a printed panty.

Ruler

Parfait Sandrine Plunge Molded Bra P5351 | Parfait Sandrine Brazilian Thong P5354 in Cameo Rose

Do you have a straight silhouette? The right lingerie can play up your shape or amp things up in that department. A bustier or longline bra paired with a Brazilian thong, for example, is a clever combination to do precisely that. A boyshort, bikini or brief with ruffles will also help to create the illusion of curves by adding volume around your hips and can be paired with a push-up bra to balance things out up top or a bralette to show off your shape.

Pear shaped

Charlotte Padded Bra 6901 in Wild Pink, Red/Black, Purple Wine, Icy Blue, Floral Shimmer, Dusty Rose, Bronze

If you’re smaller around the bust and waist and curvier around your hips, thighs and behind, you may be aiming to look more proportionate between top and bottom. A babydoll with a loose, flowy skirt and eye-catching lace detail around the bust will play down your lower body while putting your decolletage on display, drawing the focus to your upper body. A chemise with a flared bottom is also a phenomenal choice for women with broad shoulders who want to balance out their figures. You can’t go wrong with a padded bra in a bold hue with attention-grabbing detailing, either, in terms of leading the focus up top.

Hourglass

Parfait Sandrine Plunge Molded Bra P5351 | Parfait Sandrine Brazilian Thong P5354 in French Blue

With curves galore on both top and bottom, the name of the game is to let your hourglass shape shine. A corset or bustier will do the trick, of course, but a longline bra is a nice alternative. This style extends down the top of your torso a bit more, showcasing a small waist. A flirty hipster or retro high-waist panty, meanwhile, will highlight your hips, further accentuating your hourglass figure.

What’s the most important factor in selecting lingerie? That you feel irresistible in it. Now that you’ve been filled in on which undergarments are designed for which body types, hopefully, you’re prepared to pick out pieces that accomplish that.

Related: How To Define Your Lingerie Style

We Highly Recommend

Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitter help.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

Featured image lingerie:

Parfait Charlotte Padded Bra 6901 | Parfait Charlotte Bikini 6905 in Bronze

The dilemma is this. You’ve finally gotten around to cleaning out your bra collection (congrats, quite a feat!), and are ready to get rid of the old to make way for the new. Maybe some of your bras have lost their shape, or you’re bust line has outgrown a few push-up bras, or you’ve realized you never really wear that minimizer bra after all. Regardless of your reasoning for wanting to ditch a few of these underthings, you’re now left wondering what to do with them. Should you donate them? And if so, to where?

In this guide, we’ve compiled some helpful advice on what to do with those old bras you no longer need.

Donate Your Bra

The name says it all: This nonprofit is dedicated to helping support breast cancer survivors by providing them with essential underthings. Simply ship them the bras you don’t want, and the collection center will then distribute them to women’s shelters, charities, and breast cancer support groups. Even bras with broken straps, hooks, etc. can be turned into art that is then sold to raise money for the cause! So don’t fret if your bras are in less-than-ideal condition — they could still make a difference.

Free the Girls

Free the Girls has a motto that pretty much sums up their mission: By donating a bra, you’re empowering women to make a living. The organization works with services across the globe that save women and girls from falling victim to sex trafficking and helps them to launch their own businesses selling any bras that are donated. You can mail your bras to the organization or swing by one of the many drop-off points across the U.S. to donate new and gently used bras of all styles and sizes. And know that for every four bras that are donated, one woman in the program is able to make a living wage. Feel free to pen an inspiring or encouraging note to the women who are receiving the bras along with your contribution.

The Bra Recyclers

Did you know that 95 percent of the textiles we throw away can be recycled? The Bra Recyclers seeks to change that statistic by making it easier for people to give away their gently used bras in order to help women and girls in need. Even bras that aren’t wearable can make a difference in regards to the environment — the organization simply recycles them so that they don’t end up in landfills, So far, they’ve recycled over 1 million bras, supporting over 80 nonprofit organizations. They offer physical drop-off locations for your bras, but if none of those are close enough to you, you can also take advantage of the mailing option for donations.

Looking for a local organization to donate your bras to? Check out this list!

Get creative

Not ready to part with an old bra? You can still make use out of it in your wardrobe. Sewing a bra into a camisole or bathing suit top can lend some lift and support. Or, if a bra has removable padding, you can sew it into backless dresses and tops. You can even use bra padding as shoe inserts for some added comfort!

It’s important to reassess your bra collection once in a while to identify any pieces you may not be getting wear out of anymore. But before you toss those bras, consider some of these ideas for giving them new life — whether through a recycling service, a nonprofit for a worthy cause, or in your very own wardrobe.

We Highly Recommend

Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit well and feel good, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitterhelp.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

By now, you’ve probably read or heard one of the many claims that you need to be careful about your bra-wearing habits. And as a result, it’s pretty likely that you’ve been left scratching your head over whether you need to worry about your undergarments. However, some of these warnings lack proof to back them up. So, how are you supposed to know whether bras are bad for you?

If you’ve found yourself fretting over this topic, read on for the skinny on bras and your health.

The Myth

The idea that wearing bras  can increase a woman’s risk of breast cancer can be traced back to the mid-90s. It all started when a duo of medical anthropologists claimed that bras restrict the lymph nodes near the breasts, thus inhibiting drainage and preventing cancer-causing toxins from escaping the breast tissue. However, the American Cancer Society determined that the study didn’t take known risk factors for breast cancer and other variables into account, and furthermore, failed to adhere to standard practices of epidemiological research. According to the ACS, there is no scientific evidence that proves wearing a bra has any impact on a woman’s risk of developing breast cancer.

The Facts

Still, there are some factors to consider in regards to your bra-wearing habits. As previously stated, the lymphatic system is responsible for draining toxic substances from tissues, and the last thing you want to do is impede that. The good news is that as long as your bras aren’t too tight, you shouldn’t have to worry about it.

In fact, a report published by Portsmouth University revealed that a poorly fitting bra can lead to bad posture, breast pain, dents in the shoulders from strap pressure and other upper-body musculoskeletal issues (such as back, neck and shoulder pain).

Recap

It’s worth noting that whether or not you wear a bra is a personal choice, and if you’re concerned about your risk of breast cancer, there are many other factors to take into account (such as your family history) that make much more of a difference than your undergarments. Rest assured that there’s no real proof that a bra in itself, whether underwire or not is bad for you. However, wearing an ill-fitting one may be, for a variety of reasons. That’s why we always recommend getting professionally measured. Getting fitted by an expert ensures that neither the band nor the cups are too small, thus giving you peace of mind that you aren’t potentially compromising your comfort or your health.

We Highly Recommend

Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit well and feel good, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitter help.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

Featured image lingerie:

Mod By Parfait Sweetheart Padded Bra A1391 | Mod By Parfait Sweetheart Hipster A1395 in Bright White/Almond Blossom

It goes a little something like this. You spot a stunning bra — one that looks expertly constructed, with eye-catching detail and a flattering fit, and you’re determined to add it to your collection… until you take a peek at the price tag. How, you wonder, could such a small garment cost so much? And is it worth it?

One thing’s for sure: lingerie is a realm of the fashion industry that requires highly specialized expertise — there are specific four-year degrees and extensive programs in lingerie design and production important for honing those skills. It makes sense, too, given that a bra lies directly against the body (and the skin), so it must fit flawlessly, while also supporting, shaping and securing your breasts in place for an entire day or night. And that’s only taking the function of a bra into account! Beyond the practicality aspects, an ideal bra will also be pretty to look at, so there are aesthetic demands as well.

There are obviously many factors that come into play regarding the price of your unmentionables — including the length of the design process, whether it’s mass-produced or not, what materials are used, manufacturing overhead, taxes, and shipping and editorial costs. These costs are in addition to many others that you might not even consider. For example, the retail price is typically calculated so the store selling the product can make a profit to pay for the purchase of the item and their time, overhead, and expertise.

Still wondering why bras are often more expensive than other lingerie items? Read on for the full low-down — you’re bound to feel a little better about your investments.

Bringing a bra to life

The labor involved in devising, testing and actually producing a new bra design is the primary factor involved in the cost. Did you know that all lingerie is technically handmade? That’s right — there’s no factory machine churning out mass quantities of bras.

Bras are typically sewn piece-by-piece by specialists who are trained on specific machines. In fact, it’s not uncommon for a specialist to only be responsible for certain tasks, such as sewing straps or inserting underwire into bras.

Unlike a blouse or a skirt, constructing a bra requires more than simply sewing a couple pieces of fabric together. Even if the stitching is off by a marginal amount, it can mean the difference between a well-fitting bra and one that’s entirely uncomfortable and unsupportive.

The reality is, bra design is no simple process. As a result, designers spend a lot of time considering a bra’s structure before making any final decisions on its cut and features, and must first build a prototype before actually constructing it. This prototype is used to assess the quality of the product, but also to ensure that the sizing is accurate and consistent.

It takes months and months to get a single bra just right, and that time is well worth it when you take into account all the components of a bra (between 25 to 100+!) and the complexities of what it is required to do. Molded bras contain cups that are specially designed for advanced contouring and shaping purposes — and their cups must be heated over a mold to get their unique shape, making for an especially intricate process.

Designers also have to consider the demands for different bust sizes. The weight and shape of larger breasts, for example, might require a different kind of underwire, padding or stitching, or simply more seams or material on a full cup bra.

By the way — quality bras are produced using high-grade industrial sewing machines, which cost more but also ensure that they are better constructed.

Material matters

High-quality material looks better, feels better, and holds up longer. And naturally, these fabrics cost more per yard, especially when it comes to luxe lace, satin, etc. Additionally, high-tech fabrics, which are seeing higher and higher demand for their antibacterial, shaping and moisture-wicking capabilities, require a lot of research and testing, which drives up their price. That’s why sports bras, even those without underwire, can get pricey.

Cheap bras are usually made with inexpensive materials — and those don’t tend to last. They may warp, stretch, snag, fade or otherwise break down more quickly, which means you have to replace your bras more quickly. As a result, you could ultimately end up spending even more money than you would have to invest in quality bras in the first place.

It’s all in the details

Hooks, underwire, elastic, bows, multi-part cups, adjustable straps — every little detail make a massive difference in the fit, feel and look of your bra, but also in the price of it as well. Irregular stitching, plastic adjusters or clips (in place of metal) loose or overly stretchy elastic and ultra-stiff fabric are all signs of a bra with low-quality details.

Speaking of details, packaging may seem insignificant, but it’s not just for show — in fact, it plays a key role in the longevity of a bra. Careful packaging (and transportation) ensures that bras aren’t exposed to any potential damage that compromises their shape and condition before you even purchase them.

Recap

Bras are expensive because they call for a host of complex considerations — all of which are key in ensuring they meet your needs, and look good doing it. By investing in high-quality lingerie to begin with (and, of course, properly caring for those pieces), you can avoid having to replace them more often, saving you money in the long run.

Parfait Lucie Unlined Wire Bra P5202 in Mood Indigo

Related: The True Cost Of Buying Cheap Lingerie

We Highly Recommend

Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitter help.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

Featured image lingerie:

Parfait Sandrine Plunge Longline Bra P5351 in Cameo Rose | Parfait Matilda Contour Plunge Padded Bra P5311 in Bisque | Parfait Lucie Unlined Wire Bra P5202 in Barely Pink | Parfait Carole Unlined Wire Bra 3202 in Desert Flower

In the world of lingerie, some might say panties are just as important as bras — after all, they complete your set, ensuring everything from your favorite pair of jeans to your slinky cocktails dresses look just right.

Luckily, there are many different styles to choose from, which means you’re sure to find a cut that works, no matter what you’re wearing on top. Still, having so many options at your fingertips makes things a bit confusing.

You may find yourself asking questions like: “What’s the best style to wear under a pencil skirt that won’t show a panty line?” Or perhaps you’re wondering: “What’s the difference between a bikini and a brief?”

Fortunately for you, we’ve broken down the basics on each and every common panty style.

Bikini

Parfait Charlotte Bikini 6905 in Bronze

All about this style: As the name suggests, this moderate-coverage style is modeled after bathing suit bottoms. Think of the bikini as a compromise between briefs and thongs, with moderate coverage in the front and back. The waistband typically sits somewhat low on the waist, and the leg holes are cut high on the thigh.

Wear it with: Anything, from workout leggings to a T-shirt dress! The bikini is a pretty versatile style unless you’re sporting a skirt or dress that’s skin-tight.

Our top pick(s): The Lynn Bikini, if you’re looking for an everyday low-rise panty that’s super versatile, or the Matilda Bikini when you want something mid-rise that has a little extra allure from the scalloped lace on the sides.

High-Waist Brief

Charlotte High Waist Brief 6917 in Dusty Rose

All about this style: The only difference between this style and the traditional brief is that as the name implies, the high-waist brief sits further up on the waist. It offers the same full-coverage front to back for ultimate comfort. Adding to its practicality is the fact that it almost doubles as shapewear, creating a smooth silhouette near your mid-section.

Wear it with: High-waisted pants, full skirts and wrap dresses (as well as any other dresses that aren’t too form-fitting on the bottom).

Our top pick(s): The Charlotte High-Waist Brief, which has a vintage pin-up girl vibe and made with smooth satin for a super luxe feel.

Thong

Parfait Lynn Thong P13014 in Black

All about this style: This style features a triangle-shaped front and minimal backside coverage, which makes it a stellar option for avoiding VPL. The thong typically has a mid- to low-rise, and boasts a slightly thicker band than a G-string.

Wear it with: Low-rise jeans, body-hugging dresses and skirts, or anything else your heart desires.

Our top pick(s): The seamless Jeanie thong — it’s a practical basic that will disappear under any ensemble.

Brazilian Thong

Parfait Sandrine Brazilian Thong P5354 in Cameo Rose

All about this style: Essentially, the Brazilian thong is cut slightly wider in the back than a traditional thong, but still offers far less coverage than a bikini. This style is typically low-rise and has a lower-cut leg hole than a standard thong.
Wear it with: Almost anything — unless you’re primarily concerned with a VPL, in which case a G-string or traditional thong might be better.

Our top pick(s): The Sandrine Brazilian thong, which is a showstopper thanks to all-over sheer floral lace and an ultra-flattering fit.

Boyshort

Parfait Casey Boyshort 2805 in Wine Red

All about this style: Think of this style as the woman’s version of men’s boxer briefs. With longer sides that extend to the top of the thigh, the modest boyshort provides plenty of coverage.

Wear it with: A tank to bed as a comfortable alternative to PJs during the warmer months, or under somewhat shorter skirts on windy days.

Our top pick(s): The Casey Boyshort — it’ll flaunt your curves, but it’s also incredibly comfy due to a soft microfiber and stretch lace construction.

Hipster

Parfait Ellie Hipster P5085 in Pewter/European Nude

All about this style: The name says it all: This style sits lower on the hips with wide sides. Like a hybrid between a bikini and a boyshort, the hipster lends moderate coverage.

Wear it with: Your favorite low-slung jeans, shorts or a floaty skirt.

Our top pick(s): The Estelle Hipster, which boasts intricate architectural details and sheer lace panels for a panty that’s both elegant and eye-catching.

Brief

Parfait Lucie Brief P5203 in Mood Indigo

All about this style: With somewhat thicker sides, the brief offers pretty full coverage all the way around. The result? A smoother silhouette. As an added bonus, this style is known for providing maximum comfort.

Wear it with: Mid-rise or high-rise denim, dresses with fuller skirts, or voluminous, high-waisted skirts. The brief works with anything, unless you’re worried about a visible panty line.

Our top pick(s): The Casey Brief, which artfully combines smooth microfiber and stretch lace for a subtly flirty design.

Feeling a little more confident about your panty knowledge? By following this guide, you’ll never have to stress over which pair to wear.

Featured image lingerie:

Charlotte High Waist Brief 6917 in Dusty Rose | Charlotte Bikini 6905 in Bronze

Bras are a key component of your wardrobe — you rely on them to provide a flattering foundation for all of your outfits, helping you to feel confident and comfortable no matter what you’re wearing on top. But with so many styles to choose from, it can be challenging to assemble a practical collection. Which ones are the most supportive? And which ones are best for showcasing cleavage? Most importantly — which ones are best suited to your body?

If you’ve found yourself bewildered by the complicated world of bras, don’t fret. This Q & A should answer all your burning questions so you can make better decisions about the undergarments you invest in.

How many bras should a woman own?

The exact number depends on your lifestyle and wardrobe, but you need enough in your collection to rotate throughout the week (which means three to five bras). Make sure you have several options for your everyday go-to, whether it’s a T-shirt bra or unlined wire bra. Beyond that, you’ll likely want one convertible (or strapless) bra for tricky tops and dresses, a couple sports bras for workouts, and at least one extra luxurious bra for date night and special occasions.

What does underwire do?

In an underwire bra, a thin piece of wire (coated by fabric) lines the bottom and sides of the cups, offering supreme support and separation for the breasts. This degree of uplift is particularly helpful for those with a large bust, however, it all comes down to a matter of personal preference when choosing between underwire bras and wire-free alternatives.

How often should you change your bra?

It’s important to have enough bras in your collection because wearing the same bra two days in a row causes the elastic to stretch out much faster, meaning it won’t last nearly as long. Switching every day ensures that you preserve your precious investments. Wearing the same bra because it’s the only one that fits? It might be time for a bra fitting.

Related: How Often Should You Change Your Bra?

What’s a molded vs. non-molded bra?

With cups that are pre-shaped, molded bras are designed to sculpt your breasts, creating a flattering rounded and lifted shape. Within this category are a wide variety of styles — you can find molded push-up bras, plunge bras, contour bras, T-shirt bras and more. They can also be found both with and without padding. Non-molded bras don’t have quite as much structure in the cups, so while they may be incredibly supportive, won’t offer quite the same separation/shaping benefits for your breasts, resulting in a somewhat more “natural” appearance.

Do I need a full-cup bra?

The answer to this question all comes down to one word: coverage. If that’s what you’re looking for, a full-cup bra is best, as it features more fabric across the cups to fully contain the breasts. Full-cup bras are an excellent selection — unless you’re seeking to show off a little cleavage, in which case a demi-cup bra (which only covers about half the breasts) is a better choice.

Why is the fit of a bra so critical?

Before we get into the nitty-gritty of styles, remember this: finding a perfect fit is the most important factor when bra shopping. So if you’re noticing strap marks on your shoulders, gaping cups, underwire that’s poking, or other uncomfortable issues, you very well could be wearing the wrong size. Not only will a professional bra fitter help you to determine your correct size, but they can also guide you to the styles that are best for you.

We advise getting professionally fitted once a year, or after any dramatic weight changes.

Learning more about the ins and outs of bras means you’re better prepared to find the ones you’ll get lots of use out of. Just remember: it’s advisable to first get fitted by an expert, and then build a well-rounded collection with a sufficient number of bras that so that you don’t wear them out too quickly.

Related: 10 Telltale Signs You Are Wearing The Wrong Bra Size

We Highly Recommend

Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitter help.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

Featured image lingerie:

Parfait Sandrine Plunge Longline Bra P5351 | Parfait Sandrine Brazilian Thong P5354 in Cameo Rose