Lingerie: For many women, it’s all about embracing their bodies and making them feel sexy in their own skin. But does lingerie make a good gift?

If you’re scratching your head over whether or not your significant other would be delighted to unwrap some unmentionables, there are a few factors about the occasion and the recipient herself to consider.

What’s her stance, style & size?

Has she mentioned wanting some new bras while passing by a lingerie store, or noted that she loves a particularly elegant white babydoll while browsing online? These hints are a helpful indicator that lingerie would be a stellar gift for your S.O., and on top of that, this is a useful guide for what to buy.

If not, you’ll need to think about what she owns, because if you get her something completely out of the realm of her taste, lingerie could easily come off as a gift for you instead of for her. Is this the first time you’re buying her some underthings? Then play it safe by purchasing something along the lines of what’s already in her collection – look at colors, fabrics, and cuts for your guidelines.

Parfait Charlotte Padded Bra 6901 | Parfait Charlotte High Waist Brief 6905 in Red/Black

A trendy animal print thong will only go over well if she wears that style of underwear, and likewise, she’s more likely to appreciate a black demi cup bra if black is her go-to color. If she’s a very full-busted woman, a full cup bra is a great choice because she’s bound to appreciate that it offers optimal coverage.

The bottom line: Before you buy, ask yourself: Have you seen her wear anything like this before? But most importantly, are you certain of her sizes? A flawless fit is key with lingerie, so doing a little research by looking at some tags in her collection will go a long way. She’ll be impressed you know her body so well, and moreover, she’s less likely to be hassled by any returns or exchanges.

Related: How Do Push-Up Bras Work?

What’s the occasion?

One of the smartest ways to gift lingerie is to do so with no occasion whatsoever. Surprising your sweetheart with some lacy undergarments will catch her off guard, and furthermore, it’s less controversial than gifting them on a major holiday when she may be expecting something else.

Of course, lingerie is an obvious choice on Valentine’s Day, Christmas, or an anniversary, but on these momentous occasions, we suggest accompanying the lacy underthings with something else, whether it’s a romantic dinner out, concert tickets or something simple, like a perfume she wears or a book she’s been dying to read. Pairing the lingerie with another present is a win-win because it shows appreciate her both inside and outside of the bedroom.

Parfait Casey Plunge Molded Bra 3101 | Parfait Casey Hipster 3105 in Lollipop Red

Our Picks

Not sure where to start? Here are our lingerie suggestions for a wide range of tastes.

If she’s elegant…

Parfait Sandrine Plunge Longline Bra P5351 | Parfait Sandrine Hipster P5355 in Cameo Rose

A longline plunge bra in cameo rose featuring delicate floral lace shows off some cleavage yet still has a ladylike look. Pair it with a matching sheer hipster or thong for a set that screams romance.

If she’s glamorous…

Parfait Estelle Padded Bra P5231 | Estelle Hipster P5235 in Black

You’ll hardly get more glam than a balconet bra with floral bouquet lace and a three-part cup design in an inky black or rich merlot hue. Naturally, opt for a flirtatious hipster panty to match.

If she’s seductive…

Parfait Destiny Unlined Wire Bra P5102 | Parfait Destiny Hipster P5105 in Nightshadow Blue

Black is a foolproof choice for the bedroom, but why not opt for a pretty blue or bold purple instead? An lacy unlined wire bra with satin trim perfectly balances sexiness and sophistication. When paired with a matching faux lace-up hipster or bikini panty (she’ll love the corset-inspired design), it’s an irresistible set.

If she’s playful…

Parfait Kitty Underwire Babydoll 2108 in Red/Black

In sheer dotted mesh with a bow accent and a V-cutout back, a babydoll is a solid choice that’s fun and flirty.

Still unsure what to get your significant other? Head over to a lingerie specialty store and they’ll help you pick out the perfect gift (just make sure to get her size first).

Gifting lingerie specifically with her figure and fashion preferences in mind will go a long way in showing your appreciation for her. With this guide, you’re well prepared to pick out the perfect pieces to do just that.

Related: How To Buy Lingerie As A Gift

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Parfait Charlotte Padded Bra 6901 | Parfait Charlotte High Waist Brief 6917 in Red/Black

There’s no doubt about it: lingerie makes a great gift, especially for your best girlfriend. If you’ve never bought her some unmentionables before, though, you may be grappling with a slew of questions. Does this gift work for any occasion? And if it does, which pieces make for optimal presents?

Don’t stress – we’ve got you covered. Follow this guide and you’re sure to find a gift that makes her feel special.

What’s her stance, style, & size?

The good news is, you’re sure to have a solid sense of your best friend’s personal style – which will be key in picking out lingerie. You may have borrowed each other’s clothes, peeked inside her closet or even gone shopping together. So by now, you should be pretty confident about whether she’d appreciate some luxe lingerie and furthermore, specifically what kinds of pieces she’d adore.

With size, you may have to be a bit sneakier (as in, casually working it into a conversation, stopping into a lingerie store together, asking her sister, etc.). Consider what you know about her current lingerie collection and use that as a guide to whether it’s a gift she’d appreciate.

Parfait Irene Unlined Wire Bra P5332 in Black

What’s the occasion?

Nowadays, lingerie showers are becoming increasingly common – and clearly, underthings are a no-brainer gift for one of these parties. But what about a traditional bridal shower? In that case, you should consider the nature of your friendship.

Reverse the circumstances: Would it feel totally natural for you to receive lingerie from her? A nightie, luxurious robe or something else on the modest side may be a safer choice than an ultra-seductive set if she’s going to be opening these gifts in front of family.

Undoubtedly, lingerie is a phenomenal pick if you’re buying a bachelorette present. The nature of a bachelorette party is to celebrate the bride’s impending nuptials with one last wild night amongst your girlfriends, and lingerie fits right in with the somewhat racy nature of these parties.

Whether you opt for a skin-baring plunge bra or a ladylike vintage-inspired longline bralette, you can’t go wrong – as long as you take her preferences and individual style into account, of course.

Related: Where To Buy Bridal Lingerie

Our Picks

Here are some of our favorite pieces that are tailored to your girlfriend’s personal style.

If she’s super sophisticated…

Parfait Sandrine Unlined Wire Bra P5352 in Cameo Rose

An unlined wire bra or plunge longline bra in elegant lace is a stunning choice, especially in easy to wear hues like blush pink (cameo rose) and black, and offers incredible shaping benefits. Pair it with a matching hipster or thong for the ultimate glamorous set.

If she’s playful…

Carole Padded Bra 3101 in Lollipop Red

A plunge molded bra in a fun floral print or bold bright color is bound to spice up her collection, and if you’re looking for something with a touch of feminine romance, opt for that style in a print with dainty pink roses. Don’t forget the matching boyshort panty, of course.

If she’s a touch on the wild side…

Parfait Jeanie Plunge Molded Bra 4801 in Panther Print

The name of the game is to give your girlfriend something she’d definitely wear, but might not necessarily splurge on for herself. So if she’s pretty spunky in terms of her style, go for a plunge molded bra in a pink and black panther print, plus a matching hipster that’s soft and comfy yet still attention-grabbing.

Related: How To Throw A Lingerie Shower

Still unsure what to get your best friend? Head over to a lingerie specialty store and they’ll help you find the perfect bridal, bachelorette, birthday, or lingerie shower gift.

Armed with these tips, there’s no doubt you’ll be able to hunt down the perfect present for your best gal pal – now it’s time to get shopping.

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Charlotte Padded Bra 6901 in Red/Black, Wild Pink, Icy Blue, Purple Wine, Floral Shimmer, Dusty Rose, Bronze

Maybe you were invited to a lingerie shower, or maybe you simply decided that lingerie is a fitting gift for your girlfriend who’s tying the knot. Regardless, picking out some intimates for a bride requires special considerations. After all, this is a woman who’s embarking on a new stage of life (with a new hubby), and your gift should reflect that. But do these unmentionables have to be white? What

So, what kind of lingerie is right for a bride? These tips should prove helpful while you’re shopping.

Find out her size

You definitely want to be sure of the bride’s sizes before buying anything, as the fit is extra crucial when it comes to undergarments. There are several ways to go about this. If she’s one of your closest girlfriends, it should be easy enough to figure it out. You can ask her mother, sister or the groom-to-be, or be sneaky about it by casually stopping into a lingerie store with her one day to browse. The latter approach is smart because it may give you some gift ideas — observing which pieces she pulls off the rack can tell you a lot about her preferences.

If she’s not one of your best friends, you can try asking the maid of honor. Luckily, if you’ve been invited to a lingerie shower, there will almost certainly be a size card included in the invitation.

And when in doubt about her size, you can always ask her straight out. While you may be worried about ruining the surprise, trust us: she’ll appreciate that you wanted to get it right because returns are an inconvenience.

Related: Where To Buy Bridal Lingerie

Take note of her wardrobe

One of the most challenging things about buying lingerie for someone is that you may not have seen what kinds of unmentionables they wear — so how are you supposed to know what they like? Considering the clothes she wears on top of her underthings should give you a solid sense. Because in all likelihood, her taste in intimates closely matches her taste in everyday apparel.

Parfait Lucie Unlined Wire Bra P5202 in Mood Indigo

For example, if she’s the kind of gal who lives in basic T-shirts and jeans, stick with lingerie pieces that are practical yet pretty, without too many embellishments. A smooth unlined wire bra with a matching brief panty in geometric pattern lace is comfy but luxurious at the same time, especially in an unusual hue such as mood indigo. Would you describe her look as demure? Then a perfect gift might be a white longline bralette — it has a certain classic elegance but it’s also a stellar addition to any collection because it creates a stunning silhouette under all outfits.

Parfait Sandrine Plunge Longline Bra P5351 | Parfait Sandrine Brazilian Thong P5354 in Cameo Rose

If you’re seeking something just slightly sassier, a plunge longline bra in cameo rose with sheer lace hipster panties is still delicate and dainty, but has just a smidge more attitude due to the low-cut neckline. If she’s a fashion-forward lady who tends toward ensembles that are ultra-chic and sophisticated, you might opt for something that’s timeless yet eye-catching. An unlined wire bra with floral detailing is stunning in cobalt blue — and you can pair it with a glam matching hipster.

Parfait Irene Unlined Wire Bra P5332 in Black

Remember: There’s no reason why you have to stick with white pieces. While that’s the color that comes to mind for a bride, the fact of the matter is that it’s only for practicality reasons. Even though she may be wearing white underthings on the big day because her dress is white, that doesn’t mean it’s going to be her go-to color all the time. In fact, she’ll likely want to wear lingerie in more exciting, dramatic or playful hues for her honeymoon and beyond.

Related: How To Throw A Lingerie Shower

Play it safe

If you’re still struggling to nail down her personal style, you might want to choose a crowd-pleasing piece that’s on the safer side — such as a luxe nightie or robe for her to lounge around in.

For instance, a babydoll chemise has several benefits: you don’t have to worry about getting her panty size just right, it’s an entire outfit in one single piece, and it’s also something she’s not as likely to buy for herself (as opposed to bras and panties).

An unlined wire babydoll in pearl white is perfect for a bride — and with supportive cups and adjustable straps as well as scalloped lace, an accent bow, and a coquettish V-back opening, it’s both practical and playful at the same time.

Picking out lingerie for a bride may be no easy feat — but that doesn’t mean it can’t be fun. Follow these guidelines to find a gift she’ll no doubt treasure for years to come.

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Parfait Elissa Unlined Wire Babydoll P5018 in Pearl White

Without a question, lingerie is a stellar gift to give. This is especially true if you manage to nail the recipient’s style and size, and find her something that makes her feel impossibly sexy. Of course, that’s a little easier said than done. Lingerie is the most intimate of garments, so there’s no doubt that shopping for it can be an intimidating experience. With so many options in terms of cut, color, fit and other features, you might feel overwhelmed — particularly if you’ve never purchased underthings before.

Fret not, though. Whether you want to gift some unmentionables to your S.O. for an anniversary or another holiday, or simply want to treat her with no occasion at all, follow this foolproof guide to buying lingerie she’s bound to adore.

Do your homework

Without a doubt, the most important factor when it comes to buying lingerie as a gift is fit. In all likelihood, you don’t have her size memorized (and it’s worth noting that even if you did at one point, it can change). So when you’re doing laundry or she happens to be out, scope out the tags on her bras and panties. Don’t be surprised if she wears more than one size, either — they can vary from brand to brand, which is why you should be sure to check several items.

If you’re going to be buying in-store as opposed to online shops, make sure to write these sizes down and bring them with you. And while you’re shopping, always ask a salesperson if particular items tend to run small or large.

Consider her personal style

What’s the point of purchasing pieces she’s never going to wear? Remember: This is a gift for her, not just for you. So you’ll definitely want to get to know her preferences and keep them in mind while picking out lingerie. While considering her collection, you see a lot of bright playful patterns, lace, or bows? Does she tend to wear a lot of black undergarments? Any trends you notice across the board are worth noting.

Even thinking about her go-to bra and panties can be helpful. For example, if she tends to reach for a delicate pale pink bra, why not go for a plunge longline bra with dainty lace in cameo rose? It has a similar romantic vibe but is definitely more seductive than an everyday bra. On the other hand, if she tends to frequently wear a basic black T-shirt bra, try getting her an ultra-glamorous black padded bra with luxe satin detailing.

Think quality over quantity

As a general rule, the idea with lingerie is to buy something the recipient is likely to wear, but wouldn’t necessarily splurge on for themselves. That said, you definitely don’t have to break the bank. Don’t get caught up in trying to pull together a whole ensemble — it’s far more important that you seek out pieces that are well-made. High-quality lingerie not only tends to be more comfortable, but it’s less likely to fall apart. And naturally, you want to give her a gift that will keep on giving for years to come.

Related: The Guy’s Guide To Buying Lingerie For Your Girlfriend

Get some extra help

Never be afraid to ask the staff at a lingerie boutique or department store for a little assistance. These sales professionals are helping women to find their correct size through fittings as well as making product suggestions day in and day out, so why not take advantage of their expertise? Make sure to come prepared with as much information about the recipient as possible, because the more details you can offer about her sizes, style, insecurities or lifestyle, the better staff will be able to direct you to the right underthings.

Don’t be afraid to play it safe

Still scratching your head? If you’re unsure about sizing or style when it comes to bras and panties, you can always play it safe with a luxurious nightgown, or a chemise. This is a piece she can lounge around in on a lazy Sunday or while getting ready that will still make her feel sultry. You can’t go wrong with a stunning underwire babydoll featuring dotted mesh and playful ribbon and ruffle detailing.

You’re finally ready to find some lingerie the lady in question is sure to love. But let’s recap: It pays to do a little research before shopping; one special, quality piece always beats a whole set that’s not going to last; and it never hurts to ask a salesperson for advice.

Longline bras have been making a major comeback in recent years, and with good reason — this vintage-inspired style offers a number of advantages over its counterparts. The fabric under the bust extends farther down your waist, smoothing your torso and ensuring a flawless silhouette under anything from a formal dress to a casual blouse. In other words, these pieces simultaneously serve as a bra and shapewear. They also tend to offer substantial coverage without the extra bulk from padding, as they are usually unlined but feature underwire for plenty of support.

For large-busted women, the longline bra is a godsend: Because of the extended structure, the weight of the breast is distributed further, thus reducing strain on your back and shoulders. This is particularly beneficial for those who stand for long periods of the day and tend to experience discomfort wearing traditional bras.

Whether you love corset-style lingerie but are seeking something more practical, are on the hunt for bridal lingerie or simply desire a bra with some added shaping capabilities, a longline bra is the answer. Don’t know where to find one? We’ve rounded up some options for buying this on-trend style.

Bridal Shops

Longline bras are a popular pick for brides, so you should definitely be able to find one at a boutique that specializes in apparel for this occasion, such as David’s Bridal.

An unlined wire bralette in pearl white isn’t just for women saying their “I do’s”, though  — with lace detailing on the underbust and along the top of the cups, it’s also a stunning choice under a button-down or a sheer blouse as well. Plus, it comes in a range of band sizes from 30 to 40 and extends up to a cup size G, so it’s a longline bra that will flatter any figure.

Department Stores

With a large selection of lingerie from a variety of brands, you’re bound to find a longline bra that’s right for you at a department store, such as Nordstrom.

A plunge longline underwire bra can be a useful piece to have in your collection, as it’s perfect for all your low-cut dresses and tops. A lacy overlay lends a feminine look, while plenty of stretch and a wide center gore means an ideal fit and adequate support. This style also features adjustable shoulder straps and a hook-and-loop closure in the back to ensure you get just the right fit for your body. Try it in classic black under a cocktail dress, or soft cameo rose for a softer, understated yet elegant look.

Related: When Is The Best Time Of The Year To Buy Lingerie?

Parfait Elissa Unlined Wire Bralette P5012 | Parfait Elissa Brazilian Thong P5014 in Pearl White

Independent boutiques

You can also scour your local lingerie boutique for longline bras — they’re likely to carry unique styles you may not find elsewhere. Moreover, you may get more one-on-one attention from staff at small boutiques specializing in lingerie, meaning they can help to direct you to the pieces that will be especially flattering on you or meet your specific needs.

For example, Linda the Bra Lady, which is based in New York, carries a plunge longline bra in multiple hues. And it’s worth paying a visit to this store: All staff has been thoroughly trained on performing fittings, as well as helping you to find the styles that will best compliment your figure.

Online resale marketplaces

Of course, if you’re shopping online you’ll need to know your exact size, but the advantage to looking for longline bras on resale marketplaces is that you can snag some major deals and also find styles that are discontinued out of stock elsewhere. On eBay or Poshmark, for example, you can shop the closets of women all over the world, and you’ll be surprised by how many high-quality unworn bras (some with tags still attached) are for sale. Simply search for the specific attributes you’re looking for in a longline bra, such as a certain color, size, or price point.

Longline bras are the epitome of fashion-meets-function, so it’s no surprise you’re yearning to add some to your wardrobe. Luckily, any of the aforementioned stores have some options that will instantly spice up your collection.

Related: Where To Find Plus Size Lingerie

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Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit well and feel good, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitter help.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

Featured image lingerie:

Elissa Unlined Wire Bralette P5012 | Elissa Brazilian Thong P5014 in Pearl White

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So you’ve been tasked with planning a lingerie shower for the bride-to-be. This particular kind of shower has become increasingly popular, and it makes a lot of sense — it provides the bride with unmentionables she’s sure to use on her honeymoon and beyond, and offers a fun, memorable bonding experience for all involved. While a lingerie shower has some aspects in common with the traditional kind of shower (food, gifts, games), it demands some special considerations.

Take these tips into account during the shower planning process and it’s sure to be a stress-free soiree.

Location

Choosing the right venue is key — after all, the bride is going to be opening potentially racy underthings, so you want to be sure that it’s an environment in which she and all her guests feel comfortable enough to let loose and enjoy themselves. This is why lingerie showers are very often hosted at the home of the bride, maid of honor or another bridesmaid.

Some lingerie boutiques offer the option of hosting these kinds of events, so that’s another option if you’re planning a smaller, more intimate gathering. And if you go that route, the bride can try on some sets while her guests sip some champagne. As an added bonus, with this approach, guests can avoid all the guesswork with gifts and purchase pieces she picks during the event.

Theme

Don’t get overwhelmed by selecting a theme for the shower — it can be as simple as considering the bride-to-be’s favorite colors and prints for the tableware, decorations and other elements. However, you can also certainly opt for a more elaborate theme.

For example, a Parisian motif (think lots of Eiffel Towers) is always romantic, complete with cheese plates, macarons, and other French finger foods, of course. Or, you could opt for a retro pinup themed party, hanging vintage posters and encouraging guests to come dolled up in 1940s-esque attire and hairstyles.

Planning a late morning or early afternoon shower? A brunch theme will do — simply set up a custom mimosa bar and ask guests to come in their PJs. If you’re still stumped for ideas, Pinterest is a great place to do some research. Ultimately, the key with the theme is to make sure it’s something that lines up with the bride’s style, and that you keep it consistent across the board from the invitations to the decor.

Related: How To Buy Lingerie For A Bride

Invitations

Whether you choose to do traditional paper invites or e-vites, you’ll want to send them out at least six weeks in advance to ensure guests can mark their calendars and moreover, RSVP so you have an accurate headcount while planning. It’s worth noting that the majority of lingerie showers are a ladies only affair, for obvious reasons, but the invite list always comes down the bride’s preferences. In addition to the basics such as time, location and theme, you may want to give attendees a tip on what kind of gifts to bring (frilly, funny, elegant, etc.).

Most importantly, though, you’ll want to include the bride’s sizing in both bras and panties — that way, you’ll reduce the chances she has to return something. We recommend including this info on a separate insert to be discreet. You can also make suggestions on where to shop if you know your girlfriend’s favorite spots.

Since it’s up to you to provide the invitees with as much helpful info as possible, you may want to do a shopping trip with the bride to a local lingerie store so you can get to know what she likes, including cuts, colors, and fabrics.

Does she lean toward neutral lacy longline bras, or does she prefer push-up bras in vibrant colors? Is she the kind of woman who lives in thongs, or prefers more full-coverage hipsters? Consider having her compile a wishlist. This makes picking out gifts a lot easier for guests.

Activities

A lingerie shower doesn’t have to be all about gift-opening — having a few games on the itinerary, like tried-and-true Bridal Bingo, is a great way to keep guests engaged.

Have guests bring a piece of lingerie from their own collections, and as the bride removes them from a bag, everyone can guess which piece belongs to which attendee (there are bound to be some surprises as to who owns what!). Prizes like candles, massage oils or lip gloss can be awarded to the winners who guess correctly.

Set up a guestbook and encourage guests to write down one creative date night idea, or one piece of advice for the couple — these will be fun for the bride to read after the party is over. You could also set up a DIY manicure station, and while attendees’ nails are drying, they can quiz the bride on her knowledge of the groom-to-be with questions you’ve printed out ahead of time.

Now that you have some ideas for your lingerie shower, it’s time to get planning — but armed with this inspiration, you’re certain to throw one the bride will never forget.

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It’s a very common problem: your breasts are feeling sore, achy or swollen, and you don’t know why. This kind of pain (which is referred to as mastalgia in the medical realm) affects up to a whopping 70 percent of women during their lifetime — so rest assured you’re definitely alone. Still, you may be scratching your head over the cause, and one of the first factors that women often blame is their underwire bras. The reality, though, is that there are an array of causes that could be responsible your discomfort.

So, can underwire bras cause pain? Before you blame your undergarments, read on.

Common culprits

As previously mentioned, there are many reasons why women experience breast pain. When you’re lactating (to feed a baby), pregnant, or going on or off hormone replacement therapy or a birth control pill, this is a common issue. If you’re premenopausal or going through menstruation, it’s likely that these phases could also be the culprit. Your period triggers hormonal fluctuations that impact your breasts in multiple ways — the ducts are enlarged by the increase in estrogen, and milk glands grow due to progesterone. All of this tends to cause tenderness right before you get your period.

By the way, did you know that your physical activity can sometimes lead to breast pain? One study revealed that not only did one in three female marathon runners experience breast pain, but nearly 20 percent said it affected their ability to exercise. Runners reported being able to ease the ache with a supportive sports bra, however (more on that later). Speaking of exercise, if you’re feeling some soreness the day after a chest workout (think push ups and bench presses), there’s a good chance it’s the muscles behind your breasts that are feeling the pain. Luckily, this should subside if you stretch adequately and give those muscles a couple days to recover.

Related Post: 7 Signs You Are Wearing The Wrong Bra Size

Bra blunders

Surely, your bra can still play a role in breast pain. However, it’s not the underwire on its own — more likely, the issue stems from wearing a bra that is not the proper size. When the band size is too small, the underwire may dig into your rib cage or worse, the actual breast tissue. The underwire should lay flat against your torso without poking, pinching or causing any other kind of discomfort. If the band is riding up in the back, that’s another key sign that you need to size up. A bra that’s too loose can cause aches as well, because your breast tissue may simply not getting sufficient support. If you’re even slightly unsure as to whether you’re wearing the right bra size, it’s worth getting measured by a professional fitter.

Ultimately, if you’re experiencing pain around your breasts and wondering whether your underwire bra is to blame, consider this: in the correct size, it should be totally comfortable.

Related Post: 5 Reasons To Get A Professional Bra Fitting

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Mod By Parfait Sweetheart Padded Bra A1391 | Mod By Parfait Sweetheart Hipster A1395 in White/Almond Blossom

The popularity of the push up bra is undeniable. In fact, in one survey, women named this garment as the greatest fashion invention of all time. Certainly, they create equally stellar decolletage under a cocktail dress with a plunging neckline as they do under a V-neck T-shirt. And for small-chested women, the push up bra offers the chance to create more cleavage.

But exactly how do push up bras work? And are they for everyone? In this guide, we’ve delved into the details on this well-loved style.

Design

Firm support (typically from underwire) and specially constructed padded cups enable a push up bra to lift the breasts, giving the appearance of more cleavage. The padding is usually sewn directly into the interior of the cups, and given that it’s placed at the bottom, it gives the breasts a boost. The degree, material and placement of the padding will vary, so finding the right push up bra for you will depend on not only your breast size and shape but also your goals. Depending on the design, a push up bra can potentially increase the bustline by two cup sizes or more. 

Purpose

Just because push up bras can make small bustlines appear bigger doesn’t mean they’re only for A cups. Women who are seeking a little lift and more shapely, rounded cleavage can also benefit from wearing one.

Style

Push up bras typically come in plunge, demi or balcony cuts since they are aimed at creating extra cleavage. Some designs may feature embellishments such as embroidery, but there are also plenty of practical, seamless designs with no extra detailing that can be worn under thin knits and form-fitting apparel without showing through. Not all push up bras come with underwire, either. So when choosing a style, consider whether you’re seeking more lift (which underwire will offer) or the illusion of a larger size (which is where padding comes in). If you’re wearing a low-cut ensemble, plunge and demi-cup push up bras are your best bet — otherwise you can opt for a style that offers full coverage.

Related: How To Tell If A Bra Fits In 4 Easy Steps

Parfait Matilda Push Up Bra P531116 | Parfait Matilda Hipster P5315 in Black

How To Get The Perfect Fit

Found your perfect push-up bra? First, make sure it fits flawlessly to get the optimal effect when wearing it. You should be able to wear it comfortably on the loosest hook-and-eye closure so that with time, you’re able to tighten as needed. When putting one on, it’s a good idea to lean forward slightly and physically place your breasts into the cups to ensure they’re resting on top of the underwire and/or padding.

Then, when you straighten up, make any necessary readjustments to ensure you don’t have any spillage over the top of the cups or on the sides. You want all of your breast tissue to be in front of the underwire on the sides of the cups. If you find your breast tissue spilling out, you may need a larger cup size. Finally, adjust the straps so that the bra offers adequate lift without digging into your shoulders at all.

All in all, push-up bras are a popular style with very good reason: They instantly add some eye-catching oomph to any outfit. When it comes to choosing the right one for you, it’s all a matter of knowing whether your priority is lift or shaping, and just how much cleavage you want to achieve.

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Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit well and feel good, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitter help.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

Feature image lingerie:

Matilda Push Up Bra P53116 | Matilda Hipster P5315 in Nude

Your bras do a lot for you. Every day, they provide a proper base for your ensembles, making them look even more fabulous, while simultaneously offering much-needed support for your bustline all day to night. So it goes without saying that they deserve a little TLC when it comes to storing them.

Proper storage of your bras is important for several reasons. For one, the right strategies can prevent pesky creases, lumps, and wrinkles. Storing them correctly also ensures your bras won’t get bent out of shape somehow. Not to mention, when you smartly store your bras, it’ll be a lot simpler to find the one you’re looking for.

If you’re eager to protect your lingerie while also making your life a little easier, follow these foolproof guidelines:

Do:

Do choose a system

For example, you might separate them by color (and then lightest to darkest within each hue), or style (such as T-shirt bras, pushup bras, and convertible bras). It’s also a good idea to keep the ones you wear the most often toward the front of the drawer or rack. This way, when you’re specifically looking for a nude demi-cup bra, for example, you’ll spot it faster.

Do stand them up

If you’re storing molded or padded bras inside a drawer, be sure they’re standing up with the cups lined against each other to preserve their shape. Depending on how many you have, you can either store them free-standing or purchase a special drawer organizer to separate bras.

Do hang them on pretty hangers

If you have the room in your closet (or, alternatively, are short on drawer space in your dresser), hanging your bras is your best bet for avoiding wrinkles. You might consider hanging special occasion bras, for example, which may have more embellishments and luxurious materials you want to preserve. Clip hangers can leave dents in the fabric, so opt for standard triangle hangers or, better yet, flat padded hangers, instead. Seek out hangers with grooves for the straps whenever possible, so they’re less likely to fall off. You can save space (and create an aesthetically pleasing display) by stacking hangers one on top of the other so all your bras hang in a vertical row.

Do pair them up

Tucking any matching panties inside the cups of bras you store in drawers will help save you time when you’re getting ready.

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Don’t:

Don’t try to pack too many in drawers

This can cause them to become misshapen.

Don’t invert or push cups to fit inside each other

Doing so can lead to puckering and dents in molded bras.

Don’t fold your bras in half

While it may be tempting to do this to save space, it’s another method that can wreak havoc on padding, molding, and underwire. That goes for sports bras, bralettes, and other non-molded bras too — if they’re unlined and wire-free, consider rolling them up instead to avoid wrinkles.

Don’t forget to secure any hardware

To avoid snags and other damage to the delicate fabrics on your bras, you always want to make sure any hook-and-eye or other kinds of closures are secure.

Don’t be afraid to get creative

A tie rack, belt organizer, or coat rack can easily be repurposed to hang bras in your closet. You can even install a tension rod and use shower curtain rings to hang your bras.

By taking these suggestions into account, you’ll not only reap the convenience benefits of a more organized lingerie collection, but you’ll also promote the longevity of all your favorite bras.

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Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit well and feel good, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitter help.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

Featured image lingerie:

Parfait Elissa Unlined Wire Bralette P5012 | Parfait Elissa Brazilian Thong P5014 in Pearl White

Parfait Enora Minimizer Bra P5272 | Parfait Enora Bikini P5273 in Whisper Blue

Parfait Darlene Unlined Wire Bra P5172 | Parfait Darlene Bikini P5173 in Summer Blue

Parfait Destiny Contour Bra P5101 | Parfait Destiny Hipster P5105 in Nightshadow Blue

Your turn! Do you hang your bras in your closet or store them in drawers?

It’s no secret that fit is the most important factor when it comes to finding the right bras. That’s especially true in regards to sports bras — and not just for comfort’s sake. Physical activity can put a lot of strain on your breasts, causing the tissue and ligaments that keep them perky to permanently stretch out over time. On top of that, an ill-fitting sports bra can impede your performance, whether you’re running, kickboxing, cycling or engaging in a different kind of sweat session altogether.

Many women assume that their sports bras are supposed to be significantly tighter than their regular bras in order to keep the breasts in check during high-impact exercises especially. The problem is that when a sports bra is too tight, it can prevent you from breathing properly during your workout, cause chafing and potentially hinder your performance. So, just how tight are sports bras supposed to be?

Here’s everything you need to know about fit when it comes to sports bras.

Signs of a too-tight sports bra

The straps should not be digging into your shoulders whatsoever. To ensure they’re not too tight, try to slip one or two fingers underneath them (but no more, or they’re likely too loose).

Take a look at the band from front to back, and observe whether or not it’s level or riding up (which indicates that it’s too small). Again, sliding one to two fingers between your skin and the underband will tell you whether it fits well.

If you can’t manage to fit them beneath the underband, you’ll know the bra is too tight, whereas having excess space to fit more fingers demonstrates that you need to size down. Keep in mind that the majority of the support in a sports bra is coming from the underband, so it should definitely feel slightly tighter than your normal bras.

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Tips for finding the perfect fit

1.  Put it on properly

Slide the bra over your head or clasp the hook-and-eye closure, depending on the style. Then, scoop all of your breast tissue from the outside of the cups to the center of the bra.

2.  Check every feature

How does the elastic band feel? Is it cutting into your torso at all? Is all of your breast tissue contained inside of the cups? Or is it spilling out over the sides or the front of the sports bra? Do you feel comfortable overall, or like your movement and breathing may be restricted? Are the straps digging into your shoulders? These are just a few things to consider when assessing the fit of a sports bra.

3.  Put it to the test

There are a couple easy tests you can perform to determine whether your bra is too tight or too loose.

With your sports bra on, try clapping your hands over your head — if you notice that the band rides up on your torso, you’ll know it’s too small. Next, jump up and down in your sports bra to gauge the level of support. Your breasts shouldn’t move around excessively and should feel secure without being squashed down.

When in doubt, it’s always advisable to get professionally fitted. You may be surprised to find that you wear a different size in a sports bra than your other everyday bras. It’s also worth noting that encapsulated sports bras (with separated cups) are best for limiting movement of the breasts during exercise, thus helping to reduce the strain on the surrounding connective tissue that causes sagging.

More importantly, though, you should seek out a sports bra that is offered in the traditional band and cup sizes — in all likelihood, you won’t find a flawless fit in a style that only comes in small, medium and large sizing. The bottom line: Your sports bras should fit more snugly than your everyday bra, while still allowing you to breathe comfortably.

Related Post: Do You Wear A Bra Under Your Sports Bra?

We Highly Recommend

Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitter help.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

Featured image:

Parfait Active Sports Bra P5541 in Claret Red