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Do you love the idea of wearing beautiful lingerie, yet get insecure once you put it on? If that’s you, I’ve been there, too. Wearing next to nothing can be overwhelming, especially when you feel like your imperfections are shining. But, I’ve realized that it’s not lingerie that makes a woman look sexy. It’s the confidence she exudes while it.

To rock your lingerie with confidence, you must truly feel confident in it.

Here are five tips to help you feel super confident in your lingerie. 

1.  Find the right fit.

Finding the right fit is key to feeling confident in your lingerie. One size up or down can make a big difference in how a garment fits. Lingerie that’s too small can be uncomfortable. It can dig into your skin or squeeze you, creating unfortunate skin bulges. But, lingerie that’s too big won’t hug your body tightly enough. The garment may sag or not provide proper support for your breasts, which certainly won’t boost your confidence.

Regardless of your body type or breast size, there’s a perfect lingerie fit for you. I suggest finding your local lingerie store and stopping by for a fitting. The lingerie professional will take measurements to find your lingerie size.

2.  Choose pieces true to your style.

Choose lingerie that you’re comfortable in and suits your style. From sultry to modest, there’s lingerie for every woman’s taste. Opting for a garment within your comfort zone helps decrease any insecurity once you put it on.

Of course, part of the excitement of wearing lingerie is playing with various lingerie styles. If you think you’d feel more confident in a style you’ve never tried, try it! But, don’t worry if you’re not ready to branch out into chancier garments. Get your confidence way up in your sexy underthings by wearing garments that make you feel comfortable. That confidence will then make you excited to test out new lingerie styles.

3.  Find pieces you think are beautiful.

It’s essential to find garments that you think are beautiful when shopping for lingerie. You must wear lingerie for you first, and for your significant other second. Your S.O. is happy seeing you in anything – especially lingerie – so they aren’t caught up in the style. Only opt for lingerie you adore, and you’ll love putting it on every time.

Related: 8 Empowering Reasons To Wear Beautiful Lingerie

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4.  Embrace your body.

We all have body imperfections we wish we didn’t. And, there’s always some body part you wish you could alter. But, not accepting yourself will leave you feeling inadequate. Put your imperfections aside, and consider all that your body does for you. It’s strong, resilient and beautiful. You are strong, resilient and beautiful. Work what your mama gave you – embrace your body and the skin you’re in.

5.  Remember you are your worst critic.

If insecurity starts creeping into your mind, remember you’re your hardest critic. You probably look in the mirror, and start tallying what you don’t like. Before you know it, you’ve made a mental list of all the reasons you don’t look good in your lingerie. That’s no way to boost a girl’s confidence!

Your mind exaggerates the things you don’t like. And, you’re much more critical of yourself than anyone else is of you. I promise your S.O. is not focusing on your imperfections when you’re in lingerie. Instead, they’re focused on how beautiful and sexy you are. They focused on how the lingerie accents your body. Push any negative thoughts out of your mind so you have nothing but confidence in your lingerie.

Wearing lingerie is sensual and fun. But, part of the fun comes from feeling fierce and confident in your lingerie. Allow yourself to feel sexy in your lingerie without critiquing yourself. Before you know it, you’ll be putting on lingerie any chance you get!

Related: 8 Ways To Boost Your Daily Self Love

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Whether you’re shopping for new everyday bras or lingerie for a special occasion, it’s always a good idea to seek out a second opinion. We know how hard it is to find bras that fit well and feel good, especially when you’re doing it on your own. If you’ve ever felt unsure about your bra size or you just don’t know where to go to find good bras, it’s time to let a bra fitter help.

Many specialty lingerie boutiques offer bra fittings. Their expert bra fitters will take the pain and frustration out of bra shopping and do all the work for you. Even better, their product knowledge can save you time and money. Plus, they know where all of the best bras are hiding.

If you’ve struggled with finding bras in the right size, it’s time to make a change. Visit our specialty store locator to find a store near you and schedule an appointment.

Happy bra shopping!

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Lauren Hamilton

Lauren Hamilton is the founder of, a lifestyle and relationship blog offering relationship advice and encouraging women to be the happiest, most confident version of themselves through positivity and self-love. She's also a freelance writer and communications strategist. Follow her on Instagram or Twitter, and check out some of her accomplishments on her portfolio.

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